"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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D.C and Northern Virginia

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I might be applying for a job down there and I wanted to hear from those who live in the area.

First off, do you consider this area part of the "south". I always believed anything that is Maryland and below is considered the "south".

However, I had also heard Viginians call Northern Virginia "NOVA" and do not consider it part of Virginia.

Is it a good place for singles in their late 20's, early 30's?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Adone

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Everything is better than New Jersey, pal
 

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I live in Richmond and I can tell you we do call it Nova and we generally look on Northern Virginianers as yankees. Ridiculous cost of living and buttloads of traffic. Not to mention the condascending attitude of many of it's residents. Cool clubs and bars in the area though.
 

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i grew up in western md and then a suburb of baltimore, and later went to college in north carolina.

baltimore is not in the South. don't buy the "south of the mason-dixon line" crap. it doesn't apply now, if it ever did. the only southern thing in baltimore is calling dc "worshingtun"

dc is not in the South.

dc suburbs are not in the South.

fredericksburg, va is barely in the South.

there are lots of folks your age floating around that the DC metro area, but many of them are tightly focused and/or highly career-minded due to the gravity of Capitol Hill, etc. expect to run into lots of tightly-wound chicks (this is a note of both caution and opportunity)

[edit: you'd think growing up near frederick, md i'd be able to spell 'fredericksburg, va' properly...oh well]
 

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mahon83050 said:
I might be applying for a job down there and I wanted to hear from those who live in the area.

First off, do you consider this area part of the "south". I always believed anything that is Maryland and below is considered the "south".

However, I had also heard Viginians call Northern Virginia "NOVA" and do not consider it part of Virginia.

Is it a good place for singles in their late 20's, early 30's?
ditto to what he said, except replace "applying for a job" with going there to live. I've sent PMs to people I found out stay in VA but everyone's input would be helpful
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leporello

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I grew up in DC and yeah, Northern Virginia is generally well educated and ethnically diverse - meaning that you can't really consider it part of the South. Great asian food.

As for DC proper, go to Georgetown if you're looking to meet young cool people. You didn't say what you do for a living but of course politics is big in DC and you won't win yourself any points by trashing Obama.
 

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I spent the first 18 years of my life in ole maryland. Maybe I was just too young but the PA MD and VA areas were all very boring for me. There are decent enough people to meet but as soon as the chance hit me I got the heck outta there. One year Hawaii, the rest in Vegas.

I stray from the subject. Maryland is a very obscure place. If you go to NY NJ, Vermont New Hampshire etc etc, you are definately a southerner. You have a southern accent. But like wise if you go to The Carolinas, Georga or Florida you're definately a "yankee". I never thought too much about it because I grew up with the notion that I was better then all those wannabes.

There are decent local bars there. low cost of living, lots of open roads for driving and good food. I just can't get over how early everything closes there! What the hell is this "last call buisness?!" Why don't they serve alcohol on sunday?!!!!

Good luck either way boss.
 
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