"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cutting questions

Miles Davis

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I know there is a sticky dedicated to cutting, but I don't think anyone checks that thread too often anymore. SO...

When you are cutting, what kinds of changes do you see in your physique? Obviously, number one, you lose the body fat. But even though you can't really gain muscle mass while having a caloric deficit, does the body begin to look more muscular as a result of still hitting the weights hard?

Right now I've been cutting for about a week, and have noticed slight changes my body fat. I also am firmer, but was just wondering if when I am actually cut, if I'll look like I have more muscle on me than when I started the cycle.

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't really understand the question. You'll look more . . . cut. You won't look HUGE (unless you ARE huge already and are cutting from there).

In any event, when you are cutting you are going to think you're shrinking because not only are you shedding the excess fat, but your muscles ARE probably shrinking a bit (or at least not growing at the same rate your fat is shrinking).

For instance, when I came back after a summer of fun and no heavy weights, the trainer at my college looked at me and complimented me saying that although I looked smaller, I looked much more cut and looked like I was in better shape.

So expect a bit of shrinking. But you'll be lookin' better so you won't notice/care.

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Thanks, sorry for the vagueness of the question, but that's basically what i was looking for. take it easy
 
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