"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cutting Out P0rn

Falcon25

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Here are my thoughts on the issue;

When I masturbated to porn the night before and I saw or had a date with a woman; I am not really that into getting her into bed. I still want her, but not as much. I am desiring her company and her affection. She senses this, she realizes I am not aggressive, she thinks "How is this guy going to fuvk my brains out when I can't see agressive sexual needs in his eyes?". She walks away. Or becomes my friend.

When I don't masturbate; I am very, very horny. Extremely aggressive, will do anything to get her into bed and fuvk her brains out. She notices this, she smells and sees the testesterome that is oozing from my body. She notices my energy, my eyes are sharper, I am very frustrated but in a good way. I am a beast, a monster, someone who is about to kill it's prey and eat it. Some women will be turned off by this, but those who have a high sexual peak like mine, will be attracted to it. She realizes that I could take care of her sexually, even if it's for one minute, one time, or one day, she knows she will be taken care of. Therefore, she is attracted to me.

At 33, I am definately on the side of less masturbation here. DON'T DO IT. Did it affect me as much at 20? NO. But if you are over 25, save it. That energy, that testostorone will be noticed by the female species.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HPV is not a form of herpes.

Herpes Virus causes Genital Herpes. HPV is the name of virus group that has more than 100 virus types. The full name is Human Papilloma Virus. Some types of this virus cause ordinary warts. some cause genital warts and some cause Cervical cancer. HPV itself is not a disease.
Condom reduces risk of herpes and HPV by about 70%, which is better than 0 (because the condom doesn't cover the whole genital area).
 

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Ice882,

Go with your instinct here and cut out pron completely. It really does work. Everyone else is telling you that you're crazy for considering it because they are addicted to playing with themselves. A man lets women do that for him.
 

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i think we're lookin at a situation where u just dont feel like a girl can satisfy u, that for me is not normal. U rather play with Palmy and her five friends than stickin it to a girl.. that sounds like a big problem..and its deeper than just saying you have confidence issues. Try cutting off porn for a bit, maybe it'll help
 

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Jmasta23 - I know girls can satisfy me. Boy does a bj or sex top jacking it. If I preferred mb to being with a girl, I agree that would be a problem. But its not the case. Cutting it out starting today.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this thread is a fail. not for the topic, it's a good one, but for the people posting irrelevant sh1t.

there are heaps of threads already on this topic, so if you like search for them and see what's been discussed and agreed upon.

i agree with the OP, he'll be more likely to make a move if he doesn't wack it. most definitely.

wacking it is good, but dont wack it for 2 weeks then see how different and more forward you are around a girl you like!

go for it man, and report your findings.
 

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There's a conflict of communication in this thread. I can explain cause I been to where the OP is at and back, it's a non-factor when the action happens you'll be ready for it. Making moves should go with the territory, but I do understand how you feel about not having the desire to actually want to do it when you have a personalized no-risk self induced pleasure remedy, it does have to do with confidence a little but mostly about how well you know yourself and your own body.
 

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Man cut the OP some slack, this is his perspective, if lack of sex makes him more agresive more power to him.
 

Just a Shot Away

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BigJimbo said:
Total lie. HPV is the leading form of herpes and is NOT prevented by the use of condoms.
Hahaha. Somebody already set you straight, but I wanted to further solidify that this is statement is BS.

HPV has nothing to do with herpes other than they're both considered "STD's." Additionally, both genital herpes and HPV can be prevented with condom use. Again, the condom does not make you invulnerable. It just dramatically reduces the likelihood of contracting the diseases.

Now, buddy. Where did you get your information? I want a link.
 
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