"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cutting Off Good Interactions....?

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Note: This post is designed to help the guys who go out and want to sleep with high calibre chicks on the SAME night of meeting them.

Ok after been out in the filed a hell of a lot lately theses past few weeks, iv started to notice that a lot of up and coming PUAs tend to go in to a set hook the set, everything’s going well, then out of nowhere they just CUT off the good interaction there having by bailing THEMSELVES out.

What do I mean by CUT off the good interaction there having and bailing THEMSELVES out, I mean they just settle for a number when its VERY clear they could of took the interaction MUCH MUCH further, maybe gone for the isolation, the kiss close, the venue change and even the lay. But NOOOO they decide that they would rather just settle for a few digits THAT WILL PROBABLY FLAKE when they could of took the interaction so much further before just settling for a couple of worthless digits.

I just have to point out YOU DON’T GET LAID BY CUTING SHORT GOOD INTERACTIONS, you get laid by taking EVERY good interaction as FAR as is humanly possible, don’t stop short and cut of a perfectly good interaction you could SOOOO easily get a lay from.

Let me tell you a little secret approaching 1000 sets in one night will NOT GET YOU LAID, now approaching maybe just 5 sets and taking just ONE of those good interactions ALL THE WAY will get you FAR BETTER results.

Now I can understand that most up and coming pua’s get into the “HABIT” off cutting short good interactions and settling for a few digits GET OUT OF THIS STUBID HABIT. Try going out on a night out with out you mobile, just leave it at home, and then you KNOW you can’t go for a number and that you HAVE to take the good interaction you get ALL THE WAY, because you probably won’t see the chick again.

This is what iv been doing lately in order to get myself OUT of the HABIT of just settling for a quick number because it’s the easier and the most LESS effective way (epically with NIGHT GAME) to get to sleep with a high calibre chick, and i have to say its been working WONDERS for me, it’s forcing me into a place where I KNOW I have to go for the isolation, kiss close, venue change, and lay or I wont see the amazing chick again.

Now am not saying going for a few digits is a bad thing, all am saying is don’t settle for one if you KNOW or THINK you could take the interaction SOOOOO much further that same day or night before number closing.

Below is a ruff example off what am talking about:

**** PUA: (high calibre chick is kinoing him HARDCORE and throwing IOIs FREELY at him) “wow um look IV really enjoyed talking to you let me get your number” (**** PUA gets the high calibre chicks number but DOSEN’T get laid that night)

Good PUA: (high calibre chick is kinoing him HARDCORE and throwing IOIs FREELY at him) hey I want to show you something really cool lets go sit over there. (he ISOLATES target then ESCALATES. Good PUA sleeps with high calibre chick THAT NIGHT)

The 1st one is what am seeing in the filed while sarging with other up and coming PUA’s ALL THE ****ING TIME, man **** been that **** PUA that doesn’t even TRY to take the interaction further. I don’t know about any body else but I want to be that “Amazing PUA” that takes each good interaction as far as possible.

Now I understand that some guys don’t really like sleeping with girls they meet in one night, fair do’s to you guys, but keep in mind that isolating and building more comfort with chick will lead to LESS flaky numbers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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