"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cutting Alcohol out of my Game

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Friday night I had a friend take me out for some drinks and we got pretty hammered. I woke up late on Saturday and felt the effects of it.

I ran sarges Saturday and Sunday with fatigue. There's a point in my life where I have to take that extra step to achieve ultimate success. I am considering eliminating alcohol completely from my game.

I was wondering if I could get some feedback on those who don't drink or drink very little and how they go about it in social situations. Do you order Cokes, Waters when you go out? Are you ever tempted to drink?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this doesn't have much to do with health and fittness
 
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bachelor said:
not drinking alcohol is good for your health right?
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Yes that is correct, google it.
There are SOME benefits for drinking red wine though I believe, but when you drink for the purpose of getting drunk, there are some future health concerns.
 
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yes but your talking about alcohol i relation to pick-up, which has nothing to do with the forum!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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drink moderately in social settings. your problem comes from over doing it. don't drink alone. and don't drink to excess. you should be alright. pay attention to what your body tells you. treat it with respect.
 
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Well, let's put alcohol into the context of this forum...
Abusing it wreaks havoc on your physiological state. If you're
involved in a serious physical regimen of exercise, you'll learn quickly
enough that heavy drinking does nothing to enhance your body's
state of well-being....

Now as for the emotional/social/mental aspects of boozing, do a search
in General or Mature, this subject has been covered lots.
 
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