Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cutting Alcohol out of my Game

bachelor

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Friday night I had a friend take me out for some drinks and we got pretty hammered. I woke up late on Saturday and felt the effects of it.

I ran sarges Saturday and Sunday with fatigue. There's a point in my life where I have to take that extra step to achieve ultimate success. I am considering eliminating alcohol completely from my game.

I was wondering if I could get some feedback on those who don't drink or drink very little and how they go about it in social situations. Do you order Cokes, Waters when you go out? Are you ever tempted to drink?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this doesn't have much to do with health and fittness
 

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bachelor said:
not drinking alcohol is good for your health right?
Yes that is correct, google it.
There are SOME benefits for drinking red wine though I believe, but when you drink for the purpose of getting drunk, there are some future health concerns.
 

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yes but your talking about alcohol i relation to pick-up, which has nothing to do with the forum!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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drink moderately in social settings. your problem comes from over doing it. don't drink alone. and don't drink to excess. you should be alright. pay attention to what your body tells you. treat it with respect.
 

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Well, let's put alcohol into the context of this forum...
Abusing it wreaks havoc on your physiological state. If you're
involved in a serious physical regimen of exercise, you'll learn quickly
enough that heavy drinking does nothing to enhance your body's
state of well-being....

Now as for the emotional/social/mental aspects of boozing, do a search
in General or Mature, this subject has been covered lots.
 
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