Cutie who wanted me, kissed her, texts next day sayin it was a mistake! lol‏

[MaxPayne]

It was kinda funny to me acutally! Here's what happened:

I went out with this girl i met a week ago at the mall one afternoon while shopping.

I met up with her at a place she suggested which was a hotel bar with beach access, it was me, her and her girlfriend who supposedly had a boyfriend coming to catch up with us.

So we sit in the there and we talk and joke, I was bustin on her most of the time and bustin on her friend too, her friend was always like you two should "Date", you 2 should "Go Out" and "you 2 should ****!" .........my response to all of those was yeah we will

Then her friend suggests we go for a walk on the beach, which i wanted to do myself but didn want it to be cause her friend told me, so i just sit back relax and be like yeah in bit, but her friend keeps NAGGING, the girl gets up and gets her friend and goes to start walking to the beach and i tell her " come here u wanna go lets go" ....

We walk on the beach and sit for a while and I kiss her and when "I PULL AWAY" ...shes like so u DONT think of me as a sister! *a pretense i setup through blackberry messenger banter*.

We kiss again and then we go back to find out that her friend left because her bf ditched her and didn come, or was supposedly still coming. I walked her out to meet her friend and said goodnight. Told her to text me when she gets home *which she didnt do btw*.

Next day I wake up to find that she removed me off her Blackberry Messenger and deleted me off facebook!

I text her and make a joke about it, she responds with "Look, i was thinking about it and last night was a mistake...i'm sorry".

I text back " Yeaaahhh i knw me too, i cannot believe u made me do this, i promised my mom i wudn kiss a girl until i was married! But u made me break the promise! I feel so dirty! ".

And she doesn respond.

Now I think she still likes me, but maybe she is trying not to seem like a slut incase she becomes my gf!

Would love some feedback on this. Thanks

Max Payne

 

[SchoolBoy]

Now I think she still likes me, but maybe she is trying not to seem like a slut incase she becomes my gf!
Max Payne

Becoming your girlfriend is probably the last thing on her mind at the moment. Did you make sure she was actually attracted to you before attempting to kiss her? As in IOI's?

The fact that she seemed surprise you don't think of her as your sister means she might of only thought of you as a friend. But you went and kissed her anyways.

She probably didn't want to make it awkward in person by refusing to kiss you. So she's playing passive aggressive and decided to end it through a text message.

But either way, just treat it like a sh1t test. Agree/Amplify and let her know you agree and she's not your type anyways. Ignore her and don't call her anymore, if she comes back then you're on, if she doesn't then it's time to next her.

 

[MaxPayne]

You know what man I think ur right! I mean when we kissed it kinda didn feel rite, like I felt no attraction to her what so ever! I mean it's like I was kissing her because she was just THERE you know! for the sake of kissing ! lol

And also i even thought she was a bad kisser! And for as long as we sat there on the beach she was constantly talking and not trying to make this a "MOMENT" u know! I made a comment about the sound of waves being relaxing and she's like I don't think so, I don get what the big deal with em is.

BUT!

When we kissed the first time and I pulled away and then we kissed again she half-fell on her back and as we were kissing she was bitting my lip and had her hand behind my neck pulling me into the kiss! Even when I would try to slow down the kiss to pull away she would keep going!

 

[MaxPayne]

Ohh btw I called her up the next day after she didn respond, she
doesn pickup, i get a text from her a few mins later sayin "You
called?...". I did not respond because I was with another girl on a
date.

I called her the next day and she also doesn answer, I sent her a text
sayin "Let me knw when u c this."....she texts back a few mins later
sayin "Yeah,whyd you call?"........so i call her up and the phone
conversation goes something like this:

Me: Hey, how are you?
Her: Good, how r u ?
Me: Good, how u been?
Her: u just asked that.
Me: No i asked "how r u?"
Her: oooh
Me: Yeah big difference
Me: So how are you gonna make it up to me?
Her: make what?
Me: Well the fact that u used me and abused me, and treated me like a 5$ *****! lol
Her: No thats bull****!
Me: yeah rite.
Her: well i don understand why ur so pissed about it.
Me: Im not pissed haha, I was just surprised
Me: look when we first met I was like she seems interesting lets get to
know her, I wasn lookin for a relationship of anything, but then you go
and pull a move that i can best describe as a child's act.
........
*cant remember details here, but we somehow go to sayin this*

Me: and then u go remove me off blackberry messenger.....
Her: No i didn lie about that all my contacts really got deleted.
Me: rite and i go to send u a msg on facebook and find out that u deleted me too.
Her: Yeah thats rite i removed u off facebook.
....*more details i cant remember*

Me: look honestly i don't mind like i told u when i first met u i was
like shes interestin, and i really could hangup this call and not
contact u again and u would never even hear my name again, its fine, if
u don want to get close say something or stay quiet *cause she was
quiet most of the time*.

Her: Yeah i don wan us to get close.
Me: aite fine, i dont mind. We can be friends and you can find me girls i can go out with.
Her: Yeah we can be friends.
Me: okay good so we should go out again and try not to kiss.
Her: Yeah.
Me: aite then i gotta go now, talk to you later. Bye.
Her: okay bye.
----------------------------------------------------------------

 

[SchoolBoy]

Next her. Don't waste anymore of your time with her.

 

[Dante420]

Buyers remorse.

Adverse reaction to not building enough comfort in the transition from attraction to seduction.

 

[DJ_Tekinkel]

Next.
Shes dumb. Move on. Do NC.

Thats how i feel mate!

 

[tafakna]

Removed from Facebook?

Smells to me like there's an ex-bf or some other dude here... Why the heck would she be worried about you on her FB?

 

[Exhumed]

I don't know why people like to call girls out like this...obviously she wasn't going to say "Yeah, I'm not attracted to you, don't want to be friends with you, and I'm going to be rude and not say much when you text me"

 

[ENIGMA16]

Me: So how are you gonna make it up to me?
Her: make what?
Me: Well the fact that u used me and abused me, and treated me like a 5$ *****! lol
Her: No thats bull****!
Me: yeah rite.
Her: well i don understand why ur so pissed about it.
Me: Im not pissed haha, I was just surprised
Me: look when we first met I was like she seems interesting lets get to
know her, I wasn lookin for a relationship of anything, but then you go
and pull a move that i can best describe as a child's act.
........
*cant remember details here, but we somehow go to sayin this*

Me: and then u go remove me off blackberry messenger.....
Her: No i didn lie about that all my contacts really got deleted.
Me: rite and i go to send u a msg on facebook and find out that u deleted me too.
Her: Yeah thats rite i removed u off facebook.
....*more details i cant remember*

Me: look honestly i don't mind like i told u when i first met u i was
like shes interestin, and i really could hangup this call and not
contact u again and u would never even hear my name again, its fine, if
u don want to get close say something or stay quiet *cause she was
quiet most of the time*.

Why did you say all of this? None of this should have been said.