"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cute girls that dress like sh-it

pyros

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So I met this chick a few weeks ago. She has a very nice face, she's tall and thin buuuuuuuuut...she dresses dull, not sexy, boring like hell. If she dressed better and sexier she would go up one point in the looks scale but she prefers to dress like a sack of potatoes, this means: jeans, dull shoes, and a dull t-shirt on a saturday night...

I've met a few girls like this in the past. Girls that are cute, thin etc, but do not like to dress femenine neither sexy. However, there are other girls who are uglier, or fatter that know how to dress so well, that they trick you and make you think they're hotter than what they really are, and once they wash their face and take off their makeup you then see her real face, lol.

Dont you hate it? I do. This one could look way hotter ...damnn...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sylvester the cat

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i don't care what they wear as long as they look hot in their birthday suit...
 

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A real alpha male would buy them an expensive dress to wear.
 

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MidnightCity said:
maybe shes mormon, pentecostal or something.

those are usually the girls who dress very layered or dull.

i agree with you though, chicks should at least dress up for you to go out
There is a Mormon church at the start of my street and some of the women are very feminine and know how to dress, dresses, stocking and heels. A lot of churches like Jehova's witness used to have some very well presented young women going door to door pushing the bible, some real eye candy. Women in US, Australia have in many cases lost the ability to dress in a feminine way, so much so that even bigger women provided they aren't huge or obese who can dress well can very often outshine women who would normally have the edge over them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its a reflection of how she feels inside, she feels ****.
 

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yea its a real pain in the a$$

know a few chicks who don't know how to dress for sh*t....... puts me off a bit
 

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I agree, I do see quite a few women around who I'm sure, if they dressed a little more liberally, they'd be bombshells and would turn heads. But sometimes to me, that can be appealing - finding a woman who's a 'diamond in the rough' is kinda fun XD (women sometimes do this same thing with men I believe >_>)

But other times, it's just culture. At my university, there are many international students. The girl who brought me to this forum even, who made me realize I needed to stop being ultra-beta, was from nepal. She always dressed quite conservatively - long pants every fkin' day (I only saw her in shorts ONCE IN TWO YEARS, and that was mid-summer). She'd wear a shawl/scarf around her neck super often, sometimes in hot weather, to cover her boobs. In her culture, women seemed to just dress more conservatively, and those were the kind of clothes she had. She wasn't showing off her body or her curves, but damn did she have them. She was quite attractive.

All I would say I guess, is to not rule out women because their initial appearance isn't great - like you said, their body may be bangin' if they dressed a little differently. What helps is to really be present to what's going on, not daydreaming in your head, and pay attention to the girls you're talking to. They may have beauty that others have just not really seen, and be super fun conversationalists (maybe not many guys approached them because their initial appearance wasn't 9/10). Of course, obviously, if she really doesn't care about her looks and presentation much at all (red flag?), then yeah that's probably not someone you wanna be with, know when a girl isn't a quality girl. But keep your mind and options open when it comes to women, don't rule anyone out too quickly. That's my philosophy anyway

Maybe if you get closer with them, they'll start wanting to dress nice to please you? A possibility to think about, heh
 
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