"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cute girl with ugly dude wtf?

Valentino14

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She is an average looking girl, he is about a below average looking guy.

So what?

I see couples like this all the time. Most people in the world have average to below average looks. Very attractive people are harder to find.

I was trying to figure out who this guy looks like. He looks the guy in this old Bugs Bunny cartoon. :crackup:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xuSob6PAZc
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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goldengoose

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pyros said:
Hi.

Today while I was looking at FB, I found the profile of a friend of a friend of mine who is a pretty cute chick, HB7.5 or more, 22 years old blonde.

And it really shocked me when I saw her boyfriend! who is a skinny, ugly, and a druggy (or he looks like one).

I cant understand this girl LMAO, the only good thing about this guy perhaps is that he is a amateur racer


Here the link to them:

http://www.subirimagenes.net/i/140703065230306626.png

http://www.subirimagenes.net/i/140703065231870137.png

http://www.subirimagenes.net/i/140703065743161349.png



wtf?


This thread is a joke.

I don't get why you would take time out of your day to copy his pics off of facebook, upload them to a site, then come here to create a thread just to try to insult and call him ugly when has a girl who is better looking than him. The guy sounds pretty successful to me. I bet he doesn't care what you think of him anyway. What do you have? Sounds like jealousy to me. I guess the joke is on you.



Hmm said:
ROFL a 5? really :nono:

A 1 to 5 implies ugly...would not touch... and a 6 is like not ugly but scrapeing attractive.

I dunno maybe my scale is whack but I think of video games ratings..


She is atleast an 8 in a real world scale.

Lets not include rare super model types girls in this scale.

the girl is far from perfect, but most guys would love her :up:

The rating scales you guys have are out of whack. Seems to me that you guys don't know how to rate what you're looking at.

A 5 is an average women....that is dead in the middle of the rating scale which is what an average common woman should be.

A 6 is getting better but has imperfections such as being a little chubby in places.

A 7 is very good looking.....she should have less imperfections and not be chubby as the girl in the pic

An 8 is a hot girl that should be toned with no imperfections such as chubby legs, waist or face. This the hot club chick who you will see getting hit on by many dudes.

A 9 is more rare and should have hardly any imperfections. These girls make money off of their looks in entertainment

A 10 is impossible because every woman has some flaw of some sort.


This chick is nowhere near an 8 and is no 7 either. She has chubby legs, not a great 7 body, and her face is not 7 caliber. She is a 6.

Rating is never any good because guys always inflate what they look like and the women they try to date.


Valentino14 said:
I was trying to figure out who this guy looks like. He looks the guy in this old Bugs Bunny cartoon. :crackup:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xuSob6PAZc

HAHA He totally does look like him. I watched the whole thing. How did you think of that?
 

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her face is a 7 or 7.5 MAYBE...body is a 6 at best...over a 6.5 in my book and i'm not attracted to most white girls in the first place...

YOu should copme to Taiwan where i live....skinny is in big time here...girls literally swamp the skinniets most metrosexual guys int the nightclubs and literally pull the guys into makeout sessiosn and going home...see it alll the time.....this is Asia, thouygh and skinny/metrosexual is very very popular here....

The guy in that pic is not that horrible looking...i have seen much bigger mismatche4s..
 

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She's a 6 at best so take this chick off the pedestal. Like I said I'd happily **** a 5. You have a poor mindset if you go around acting like 6's are too hot to be with average dudes. The guy is no monster and you made him sound cool the drug taking racer
 

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Haha, this shıt's everywhere, all around the world, homey. Ugly mudderfuackas gotta get laid, too!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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expos

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Let's be vain and judgmental...

That girl is pretty cute. She's an 8.5. I would hit it. But she could have an absolutely lousy personality and be really bad relationship material. That would make her a 4.

That guy is not attractive. But at least he's not fat! He's probably a 4.5 at best, but the balance might be his intellect, humor, career, etc.

I have found that looks are becoming less and less important as I get older. Yes, if you get ripped and have great facial aesthetics you are going to get attention, but you attracting a particular type of woman who is superficial in nature.

Women are more or less looking for financial support and guidance in a mate as they age. As a woman's appearance drops, so does her options, so she seeks out uglier with more wealth. Take a good look around SS'ers..

So back to that guy and that girl in those photos - there is balance between the two that probably works. Good on that guy for getting with an 8.5!
 
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