"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cute girl asked for my number and I said no???

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Chrom3y

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So yea...I have a gf and I guess I didn't wanna be shady behind her back?? My friend told me I was an idiot lol. It's just a number right? I mean is it cheating? I'm still pissed that I said no. What do you guys think???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Calling her and arranging something would be cheating but just having her number is not. In future, take the number, keep it safe somewhere (don't tell your gf) and maybe break it out if/when you and your gf ever split. Don't beat yourself up too much though, it's only one number. You're young, you'll get more.
 
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Yea you're right. I'm just tired of girls always throwing themselves at me once I decide to become exclusive with someone...WTF. But I'm definitly getting the number next time.

Thanks.
 
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