"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cute girl asked for my number and I said no???

Chrom3y

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So yea...I have a gf and I guess I didn't wanna be shady behind her back?? My friend told me I was an idiot lol. It's just a number right? I mean is it cheating? I'm still pissed that I said no. What do you guys think???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling her and arranging something would be cheating but just having her number is not. In future, take the number, keep it safe somewhere (don't tell your gf) and maybe break it out if/when you and your gf ever split. Don't beat yourself up too much though, it's only one number. You're young, you'll get more.
 

Chrom3y

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Yea you're right. I'm just tired of girls always throwing themselves at me once I decide to become exclusive with someone...WTF. But I'm definitly getting the number next time.

Thanks.
 
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