blind_one
Master Don Juan
The gal I met [ http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=198022 ] Came over as planned.
I was relaxed from the start but I could feel she wasn't but a little while later it was all fine.
We went to a nearby shot to get the last ingredient then went to my place sat down and chilled while I put some chill tracks ( thank you SenorFingers ).
It also helped her relax a bit. When I got into a state It all went well.
I pulled some **** I read recently and It worked well but I guess it was might right frame of mind in which I did it.
She was really defensive again turning her back to me a bit, her eye contact was wear and was sort of very shy.
The conclusion I made after walking her to the station that she was acting like an AFC O_O.
She studies linguistics, on her way to become a professional translator, shes passionate about photography.
I've took that kind of behaviour from her while at her place back in the thread, so I just popped that bed from _/ to ___ and started gently wrestling and tickling her. Had a pillow fight too.
She was still kind of defensive, covering her face in her hair but I persisted since she was smiling and giggling ( not only from the tickling :crackup: )
Made out a couple of time, she was using me as her cushion most of the time we were on that couch "I'm a great cushion" she says which I didn't mind
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That way she tried to stop me from going to the kitchen and baking a cake together but I persisted ( after all its like a couple of minutes then baking time and were back in bussines).
Ran some situational C&F b4 and while in the kitchen like make yourself of you do this and that, blah blah I hope your a good cook or this marriage won't work, or maybe at least your a good masseur, no ? Well you chances are dwindling. She was a good sport about it, poked me and said I was a jerk heh with a smile, it was all well.
After we put the cake in we went back. Talked some more about music and other light stuff. Then she told what she dreamt recently. We make out some more I got for the collarbone neck and upper parts of the thathas that are conveniently exposed. Then I stop as If nothing happened and we have more conversation ( the time is running like crazy ) its already been nearly 3 hours or more.
I bring a bootle of champagne, and after we get a glass or two she's at ease.
There was some more conversation that sprouted after and b4 that which tells my gut different things.
She might actually be a nice girl. ( She left her steady bf because he failed his math finals after a whole summer of studying ) She didn't say it openly but I figured it out. " How can someone fail it like this yadayadayada " , " You passed right", and some other things. She complimented me on my memory of some other thing ( that might be because of her speaking manner and not spewing out bs ).
She is not insecure physicly altough she could be abit fitter, but hey I could too, she's short and not broad so It's a big yes.
She didn't get a lot of action I think from the way she makes out but hey, I'm not the expert here:crackup:
She craves physical touch like a child craves attention hugging me all the time and using me as a pillow, but It ain't daddy issues.
She's chill, leveled and got some smarts which is always big for me.
She mentioned something about me escalating further then she though she would let me ( not far derp ), and asking her girl friends whenever she should give me a sign when shes back from home (thread above).
Also she mentioned a text I send her about her being a sleepyhead and to finaly get some rest because 2/2 times when I called her during some span of time she was all zombiefied that she didn't know some idiom I used and noone she lives with knew ( they are from different part of country ).
Overally it went well. I'll probably get bashed for not escalating to the max or something but so far the interest it high, she texted me when she arrived home that she arrived and that she's thankful that I invited her and for a nice evening ( she traveled 15 km to my place yay ) and we wished ourselves good night. It cleared all her doubts about me using her while she was drunk back then, Invited me over to her place sometime in near future ( her flatmates will be ****blocking even unintentionaly but I digress ) My friend that invited me last time tells me they will be having nother party this weekend prolly.
Should I got NC or wait for her to contact me ( to give her the gift of missing me ) or is it inappropriate at the time ?
Thanks for the read if any, your advice is most welcome.
I was relaxed from the start but I could feel she wasn't but a little while later it was all fine.
We went to a nearby shot to get the last ingredient then went to my place sat down and chilled while I put some chill tracks ( thank you SenorFingers ).
It also helped her relax a bit. When I got into a state It all went well.
I pulled some **** I read recently and It worked well but I guess it was might right frame of mind in which I did it.
She was really defensive again turning her back to me a bit, her eye contact was wear and was sort of very shy.
The conclusion I made after walking her to the station that she was acting like an AFC O_O.
She studies linguistics, on her way to become a professional translator, shes passionate about photography.
I've took that kind of behaviour from her while at her place back in the thread, so I just popped that bed from _/ to ___ and started gently wrestling and tickling her. Had a pillow fight too.
She was still kind of defensive, covering her face in her hair but I persisted since she was smiling and giggling ( not only from the tickling :crackup: )
Made out a couple of time, she was using me as her cushion most of the time we were on that couch "I'm a great cushion" she says which I didn't mind
.That way she tried to stop me from going to the kitchen and baking a cake together but I persisted ( after all its like a couple of minutes then baking time and were back in bussines).
Ran some situational C&F b4 and while in the kitchen like make yourself of you do this and that, blah blah I hope your a good cook or this marriage won't work, or maybe at least your a good masseur, no ? Well you chances are dwindling. She was a good sport about it, poked me and said I was a jerk heh with a smile, it was all well.
After we put the cake in we went back. Talked some more about music and other light stuff. Then she told what she dreamt recently. We make out some more I got for the collarbone neck and upper parts of the thathas that are conveniently exposed. Then I stop as If nothing happened and we have more conversation ( the time is running like crazy ) its already been nearly 3 hours or more.
I bring a bootle of champagne, and after we get a glass or two she's at ease.
There was some more conversation that sprouted after and b4 that which tells my gut different things.
She might actually be a nice girl. ( She left her steady bf because he failed his math finals after a whole summer of studying ) She didn't say it openly but I figured it out. " How can someone fail it like this yadayadayada " , " You passed right", and some other things. She complimented me on my memory of some other thing ( that might be because of her speaking manner and not spewing out bs ).
She is not insecure physicly altough she could be abit fitter, but hey I could too, she's short and not broad so It's a big yes.
She didn't get a lot of action I think from the way she makes out but hey, I'm not the expert here:crackup:
She craves physical touch like a child craves attention hugging me all the time and using me as a pillow, but It ain't daddy issues.
She's chill, leveled and got some smarts which is always big for me.
She mentioned something about me escalating further then she though she would let me ( not far derp ), and asking her girl friends whenever she should give me a sign when shes back from home (thread above).
Also she mentioned a text I send her about her being a sleepyhead and to finaly get some rest because 2/2 times when I called her during some span of time she was all zombiefied that she didn't know some idiom I used and noone she lives with knew ( they are from different part of country ).
Overally it went well. I'll probably get bashed for not escalating to the max or something but so far the interest it high, she texted me when she arrived home that she arrived and that she's thankful that I invited her and for a nice evening ( she traveled 15 km to my place yay ) and we wished ourselves good night. It cleared all her doubts about me using her while she was drunk back then, Invited me over to her place sometime in near future ( her flatmates will be ****blocking even unintentionaly but I digress ) My friend that invited me last time tells me they will be having nother party this weekend prolly.
Should I got NC or wait for her to contact me ( to give her the gift of missing me ) or is it inappropriate at the time ?
Thanks for the read if any, your advice is most welcome.
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