"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cut the anc*****s off your ship.

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When sailing a ship what happens when you drop the anchor?

You stay stagnant like a pond, growing an infestation of bacteria,

Yet cut the anchor and you are the river which steadily flows clean and clear never stopping to obstructions, never confined, uncovering ways above and around always steadily moving.

You must find out what in life holds you down, What are your anchors? Are they negative friends? Is it a job you hate?

Drop these things immediately and find peace.

Do not find troubles in what others think of you, Do not go searching of stresses in matters that do not concern you and think deeply make sure you are not creating chaos in your own life.

Instead meditate on the only thing you truly have control over. It is NOT your health, the world nor the thoughts of others.

The one thing you truly have control over is your mind!

So cut the stresses and anchors out of your life and be Happy!

As Marcus Aurelius said, “Focus on things you can change. Your own will and perception detaching from things out of your control health, death actions of others.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes Marcus Aurelius has some pretty incredible stuff and yet he stayed so humble.
 

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Although I think that this is one of the situations where the saying, "Each to his own applies," but just in case, do you think there are steps that we could take to figure out the anchors in life that unnecessarily burdens us?
 
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TheSlasher said:
Although I think that this is one of the situations where the saying, "Each to his own applies," but just in case, do you think there are steps that we could take to figure out the anchors in life that unnecessarily burdens us?
Excellent question! I think this could be an entirely other discussion but to sum it up I think anything that holds you back from your happiness or achieving your goals should be cut immediately. It is so much harder to walk with a ball and chain than if you cut the chain and are free to run.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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