"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cut my losses or continue to play

Solomon

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One thing about this game, the hotter the girl the more merde test you get, more prescisce your "negs" have to be, more witty banter, basically you have to be on top of your game. These women look for any sign of weakness to disqualify you, you always have to be ony our toes...while I enjoy the challenge I rather just cut the b.s.

Long story short I'm talking to this chick she's older but still a solid 8.5-9 problem is she wants me to chase her(we haven't hung out yet). It's come to the point where I'm losing the frame, I didn't realize it till last night

So Last night she was at a football game but was on the other side of town, we were suppose to meet but she made some lame excuses, she asked me to send her a picture so I did........

one with me picking up a girl just as hot kissing my cheeck, with handcuffs on the side of my pants and my zipper open, :D

Now you probably think WTF solo why did you that for? but meh it's to show that I'm not waiting for you(there were tons of hot girls out last night in slutty dresses, hnnnng!), and with these chicks dumb shyt like that works, cause how many guys would have the balls to do that? IT'S PART OF THE GAME

Whats my point with this thread? my point is this I'm rusty as hell and I'm glad this site exist but even If I do get the bang would it really be satisfying jumping through all that bullshyt?

I don't think so, I don't know how most of you do it, I just don't have the patience for the bullshyt anymore. I get it but I rather just cut the b.s.


but faaaaaaaaaaark, I love me a hot woman so the game I must play and my sword I must re-sharpen

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I salute you, sir. Whether that blows it with the chick or not, you truly exemplified the I don't give a fuck attitude. Well done.
 

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Mad props! I like what you do in the field and it has inspired me on my own ventures, no joke. I see what you're getting at too. Lately I've decided not to deal with it at all.
 

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bmxcetera said:
Mad props! I like what you do in the field and it has inspired me on my own ventures, no joke. I see what you're getting at too. Lately I've decided not to deal with it at all.
Honestly I didn't post this to brag, seriosuly I feel like a noob all over again

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Here is the pic for proof

http://i50.tinypic.com/kewv9s.jpg

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol anyone ever tell you that you kinda look like Chalky White / Omar Little lol? you kinda resemble michael k williams in the face
 
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