"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Current FB wants to pull another girl with me.....

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Hey guys,

I need some help/advice on this one. My current FB (23 from myspace) is interested in pulling another girl with me. She's bi curious and wants to do another girl with me. It appears the she mostly wants to do it to make me happy (even though I never really pushed it with her - I think it's more an excuse to do something she really wants anyway) and is mostly interested in a threesome rather than her just doing another girl.

She's mentioned finding a girl online and we've talked about going out and meeting one as well.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

What's the best way to handle it so my primary has a good experience?

What's the best way to deal with the other girl so she is receptive to being with both of us rather than just my girl?

If there are archived posts on this just point me to the threads.

Thanks,

gixx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And this is a problem, why?
 
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Not a problem at all, Rollo. I posted because I don't have any experience with these situations and wanted to get some input on potential problems to watch out for and, basically, how to make it a really good experience for her and set everything up so it goes smoothly and she wants to do it more :D

I'm concerned because I am now going to have to manage three relationships at the same time - at least before and during the "act"

gixx
 
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