"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Current FB wants to pull another girl with me.....

gixxer

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Hey guys,

I need some help/advice on this one. My current FB (23 from myspace) is interested in pulling another girl with me. She's bi curious and wants to do another girl with me. It appears the she mostly wants to do it to make me happy (even though I never really pushed it with her - I think it's more an excuse to do something she really wants anyway) and is mostly interested in a threesome rather than her just doing another girl.

She's mentioned finding a girl online and we've talked about going out and meeting one as well.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

What's the best way to handle it so my primary has a good experience?

What's the best way to deal with the other girl so she is receptive to being with both of us rather than just my girl?

If there are archived posts on this just point me to the threads.

Thanks,

gixx
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And this is a problem, why?
 

gixxer

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Not a problem at all, Rollo. I posted because I don't have any experience with these situations and wanted to get some input on potential problems to watch out for and, basically, how to make it a really good experience for her and set everything up so it goes smoothly and she wants to do it more :D

I'm concerned because I am now going to have to manage three relationships at the same time - at least before and during the "act"

gixx
 
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