"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Curly Hair and You

Turnthemusicup

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To you dudes with insanely curly hair, hello and wth do your curly hair?

After getting over the shock of going from straight wavy hair to really thick curly hair(took almost a year to fully accept it) i now just put anti frizz and hair gell in after a shower and shake. Anyone else have any good styles?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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adpreston1988

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I just kind of go with the curly hair. Sometimes I'll gel it up, sometimes I'll wear a hat, and othertimes I"ll just let it be naturally and accept the fact that I look like Cory Matthews from Boy Meets World. lol.
 

Ziggy

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I keep mine long. Women love it, I'm always getting compliments. But if you let it go long you have to keep it clean or it looks gross and women hate that.
 

Turnthemusicup

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But what kind of curly hair do you have? Mine is just short of an afro so i dont think long hair would go so well.
 

Ziggy

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I think my curly hair's different from yours cause even when it was shorter it didn't look like an afro, mine's thick but it's not that thick.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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