"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Curly Hair and You

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To you dudes with insanely curly hair, hello and wth do your curly hair?

After getting over the shock of going from straight wavy hair to really thick curly hair(took almost a year to fully accept it) i now just put anti frizz and hair gell in after a shower and shake. Anyone else have any good styles?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just kind of go with the curly hair. Sometimes I'll gel it up, sometimes I'll wear a hat, and othertimes I"ll just let it be naturally and accept the fact that I look like Cory Matthews from Boy Meets World. lol.
 

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I keep mine long. Women love it, I'm always getting compliments. But if you let it go long you have to keep it clean or it looks gross and women hate that.
 

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But what kind of curly hair do you have? Mine is just short of an afro so i dont think long hair would go so well.
 

Ziggy

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I think my curly hair's different from yours cause even when it was shorter it didn't look like an afro, mine's thick but it's not that thick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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