"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey, im just curious and i want some advice. how will i know if shes intrested or not? yes, yes i know read the dj bible but i did and i still cant tell. i mean, is there anything that i can do to test it?:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You missed the point of the bible.

By the end you shouldn't be wondering "Does she like me?", you should be confident in everything you do, if you want her, you'll take action and get her. If she doesn't want you, then who cares, there's so many more out there.

Welcome by the way, and read the bible again.
 

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actually its not much of a "does she like me or not" but "does she like me so i can make my move" y'know that kinda thing
 

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Your missing DJONEDAYS's point. He is saying that it doesnt matter if she likes you or not. Ask her to lunch, get her number. Trust me you will be able to tell if shes interested by asking her to a movie or something by her yes/no response. Its better than waiting for "signs" if she rejects u move on, theres more fish in the sea atleast u still wouldnt be crying over her and if or if not she likes you.
 

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Originally posted by fenix1987
actually its not much of a "does she like me or not" but "does she like me so i can make my move" y'know that kinda thing
Actually, he didn't read the bible. The smartass just is too lazy to look through for a bit so decides to make a 2 line post instead.

There is a forum called "The archive". You will there find a post from pook (don't forget to view posts since the begining, not just the last 10 days) called signs of High interrest. Another person posted signs of low interrest. That should help you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hes not, he is actually trying to help you, the first part is to point you in the right direction, then next part is to give you a kick up the backside to keep your momentum. No wrries, most of us have bee nthrough what you are probably going through. (covered my arse well there).
 

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You'll never know unless you try it, will you?
 
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