"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey, im just curious and i want some advice. how will i know if shes intrested or not? yes, yes i know read the dj bible but i did and i still cant tell. i mean, is there anything that i can do to test it?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You missed the point of the bible.

By the end you shouldn't be wondering "Does she like me?", you should be confident in everything you do, if you want her, you'll take action and get her. If she doesn't want you, then who cares, there's so many more out there.

Welcome by the way, and read the bible again.
 

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actually its not much of a "does she like me or not" but "does she like me so i can make my move" y'know that kinda thing
 

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Your missing DJONEDAYS's point. He is saying that it doesnt matter if she likes you or not. Ask her to lunch, get her number. Trust me you will be able to tell if shes interested by asking her to a movie or something by her yes/no response. Its better than waiting for "signs" if she rejects u move on, theres more fish in the sea atleast u still wouldnt be crying over her and if or if not she likes you.
 

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Originally posted by fenix1987
actually its not much of a "does she like me or not" but "does she like me so i can make my move" y'know that kinda thing
Actually, he didn't read the bible. The smartass just is too lazy to look through for a bit so decides to make a 2 line post instead.

There is a forum called "The archive". You will there find a post from pook (don't forget to view posts since the begining, not just the last 10 days) called signs of High interrest. Another person posted signs of low interrest. That should help you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hes not, he is actually trying to help you, the first part is to point you in the right direction, then next part is to give you a kick up the backside to keep your momentum. No wrries, most of us have bee nthrough what you are probably going through. (covered my arse well there).
 

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You'll never know unless you try it, will you?
 
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