"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Curious Why Women Stay With Men They Don't Like

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For example, if a woman is happy in her relationship, if you ask her "Hey, how is X doing?" She will say "oh he's great! blah blah blah blah" and she would have a lot to say.

If you ask a woman "How is X doing?" and she kinda gets a half smile and says "he's OK" then you gotta wonder why she's not so excited to talk about him and must not like him very much. I have met women like this who say "he's ok" or "yeah he's doing good" or "yeah it's fun."

But, since we all know women can pretty much get any guy they want within reason, why would a girl who isn't happy with her guy stay in a relationship? It's 100x easier for a girl to find a new partner than a man to find a new partner.

So, what reasons do you guys think a girl will stay in an unhappy relationship? :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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maqnetik said:
women choose out of necessity, PERIOD. if she can get what you have to offer for free of course shes going to pick some trick because youre playing stuntman. its a game so play to win.
What is a trick and a stuntman? Is this new terminology? I really do not get what you are trying to say. Can you maybe explain please?
 

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Pimply_Pimp said:
What is a trick and a stuntman? Is this new terminology? I really do not get what you are trying to say. Can you maybe explain please?
I don't know what that guy's talking about. I think women stay in boring relationship for the same reason men do. It's comfortable and it gives them something to do.

The world is mostly full of unambitious people. Give them a job, a roof over their head and some boring slab to have sex with and that's all they need.

The girls you're talking about are caught up in the world of "good enough." They don't want to risk losing their cozy relationship by reaching out for a better one, so stick with the "good enough" guy instead of taking a chance to find something better.
 

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Iceberg said:
I don't know what that guy's talking about. I think women stay in boring relationship for the same reason men do. It's comfortable and it gives them something to do.

The world is mostly full of unambitious people. Give them a job, a roof over their head and some boring slab to have sex with and that's all they need.

The girls you're talking about are caught up in the world of "good enough." They don't want to risk losing their cozy relationship by reaching out for a better one, so stick with the "good enough" guy instead of taking a chance to find something better.
But remember this is WOMEN we are talking about. She breaks up with her b/f, BOOM! She has about 15 guys within 10 minutes to pick from. And that's not even counting all the people she can open up to and flirt with. That's only counting the orbiters.

It's not like the stereotypical guy breaking up with his g/f and going "Damn, I got no p.ussy now!" Women can get right back to riding their sticks all night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Honestly, a trick and stuntman are guys who don't get the pvssy wet but spend good money on it and keep her sportin LV logos, prada sunglasses, etc. They pay car notes, house notes, and take her on expensive vacations, etc. Friends and fam tell her its the life.
 

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Pimply_Pimp said:
But remember this is WOMEN we are talking about. She breaks up with her b/f, BOOM! She has about 15 guys within 10 minutes to pick from. And that's not even counting all the people she can open up to and flirt with. That's only counting the orbiters.

It's not like the stereotypical guy breaking up with his g/f and going "Damn, I got no p.ussy now!" Women can get right back to riding their sticks all night.
Yeah but who are these 15 guys? You know how girls are. It can't just be 15 random decent-looking guys. It has to be guys with GAME. And I barely know 3 guys with game, let alone 15 of them.

As men, if we had 15 potential mates, sure we'd "date" (AKA bang) 12 of them. Women's minds don't work the same as ours. It's not good enough for someone to be attracted to them...there has to be some level of confidence and control beneath the surface. And that's hard to find in a man. 80% of these hypothetical men you speak of will be boring, dumb, needy, or just plain weak.

So honestly, I don't think women think that they can just dump a b/f and go get whoever they want. They have to weed through the crappy potential mates just like we do. And it's a long and tedious process if you're not ready for it. Which makes that boring old boyfriend seem like a more comfortable option.
 

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Young Juan said:
Honestly, a trick and stuntman are guys who don't get the pvssy wet but spend good money on it and keep her sportin LV logos, prada sunglasses, etc. They pay car notes, house notes, and take her on expensive vacations, etc. Friends and fam tell her its the life.
pretty much. tricks just slang for a man/boy whos trying too hard, any WAY, SHAPE, or FORM.

alpha, beta, makes no difference because i believe the term used on this board is ?SATALITE?...... i just call it LOITERING.

you have to be BRAZEN with these women used to this scenario because as long as a woman has STRONG men paying attention to her she will continue to CHOOSE a WEAK man she can manipulate.

you have to make is clear from the get-go that you dont PLAY that, you dont DO that, and if she wants the GOODS theres no ROMANCE without FINANCE.

flip the script
 

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Pimply_Pimp said:
But, since we all know women can pretty much get any guy they want within reason, why would a girl who isn't happy with her guy stay in a relationship? It's 100x easier for a girl to find a new partner than a man to find a new partner.

So, what reasons do you guys think a girl will stay in an unhappy relationship? :confused:
Women can't have serious relationships with any guys they want. They can only get meaningless sex from any guy they want. So they sometimes have to settle if they want a relationship. Just like men will settle for an unattractive woman if they're horny enough.

I'm sure if a lot of these women were to meet someone they liked better who was available they'd leave their current partners. A lot of women never seem to want to be single. They just swing from one partner to the other.
 
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