...fathers that left them early on. There seems to be an epidemic where I live and recently most girls i meet have fathers they didn't/don't know. I remember learning that girls base their ideal male on their father so what does this leave us with regaurding these females?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Why would it matter? You're not looking to be her father - you're looking to be her lover. If you plan on changing the way you act simply because her father left her early in her life then that's just sad. You should approach each girl the same - as yourself - and not worry about things like "well maybe her father left her earlier in life so she won't like me". I mean, come on. Either she's going to want you or she isn't, it's as simple as that.
wow doggie, slow ur role. who said anything about changing? The "c" word i used was Curious.
i think your too used to cats coming in here talking about "what if she blah blah ... how should i act?" thats not this thread so take ur high & mighty act somewhere else.
and why would it matter? It doesn't really. Im just CURIOUS. so many cats here presume to be experts on women so i figured this would be an appropriate place to pose the question.
i think your too used to cats coming in here talking about "what if she blah blah ... how should i act?" thats not this thread so take ur high & mighty act somewhere else.
and why would it matter? It doesn't really. Im just CURIOUS. so many cats here presume to be experts on women so i figured this would be an appropriate place to pose the question.
diablo
Master Don Juan
etc etc etc... make of it what you will. There's no shortage out there of research done on fatherless children (both male and female).Sexual activity. In a study of 700 adolescents, researchers found that "compared to families with two natural parents living in the home, adolescents from single-parent families have been found to engage in greater and earlier sexual activity."
Source: Carol W. Metzler, et al. "The Social Context for Risky Sexual Behavior Among Adolescents," Journal of Behavioral Medicine 17 (1994).
A myriad of maladies. Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse, mental illness, suicide, poor educational performance, teen pregnancy, and criminality.
Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Center for Health Statistics, Survey on Child Health, Washington, DC, 1993.
Drinking problems. Teenagers living in single-parent households are more likely to abuse alcohol and at an earlier age compared to children reared in two-parent households
Source: Terry E. Duncan, Susan C. Duncan and Hyman Hops, "The Effects of Family Cohesiveness and Peer Encouragement on the Development of Adolescent Alcohol Use: A Cohort-Sequential Approach to the Analysis of Longitudinal Data," Journal of Studies on Alcohol 55 (1994).
Drug Use: "...the absence of the father in the home affects significantly the behavior of adolescents and results in the greater use of alcohol and marijuana."
Source: Deane Scott Berman, "Risk Factors Leading to Adolescent Substance Abuse," Adolescence 30 (1995)
High risk. Fatherless children are at dramatically greater risk of suicide.
Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Center for Health Statistics, Survey on Child Health, Washington, DC, 1993.
Emotional distress. Children living with a never-married mother are more likely to have been treated for emotional problems.
Source: L. Remez, "Children Who Don't Live with Both Parents Face Behavioral Problems," Family Planning Perspectives (January/February 1992).
Uncooperative kids. Children reared by a divorced or never-married mother are less cooperative and score lower on tests of intelligence than children reared in intact families. Statistical analysis of the behavior and intelligence of these children revealed "significant detrimental effects" of living in a female-headed household. Growing up in a female-headed household remained a statistical predictor of behavior problems even after adjusting for differences in family income.
Source: Greg L. Duncan, Jeanne Brooks-Gunn and Pamela Kato Klebanov, "Economic Deprivation and Early Childhood Development," Child Development 65 (1994).
Here's just one such link:
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themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
just remember, like attracts like, if your parents and her parents are similar, most likely you'll be more compatible with each other.
someone who grew up in an active social family life might not do well with someone who came from a dysfunctional one parent home.
just speaking realistically, you can work things out if the other party is willing to work it out.
someone who grew up in an active social family life might not do well with someone who came from a dysfunctional one parent home.
just speaking realistically, you can work things out if the other party is willing to work it out.