TheFixer14
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So I met this woman randomly at a meetup up. When he overhead that I was from MD (she is from there too), she was all over me and we clicked pretty quickly. I set up a date pretty quickly and our first date was ice skating.
I paid for both of us by accident (I should have bought my ticket before she came, but I waited and went with her and the cashier just assumed that I was paying for the both of us) and I thought it was kinda weird that she didn't say thank you. But whatever.
So we skated and it was rather fun. She is an interesting woman. She is seven years old than me (she is 31), she was very punk rock and still dresses in that way, but is a Mormon and won't go out to anywhere outside of Church on Sundays. She doesn't drink or smoke and never has. She is a dancer, but doesn't care for pop culture at all. In a lot of ways she is the opposite of me (I am a Christian, but rarely go to church. I drink socially and smoke a lot of weed. I am an actor and filmmaker so we have one thing in common. But I love watching films, anime, and TV shows).
I did notice how she made a lot of self deprecating jokes though perhaps indicating a low self esteem and her saying some things to try to impress me. But it was a rather fun date. We went around the ring, holding hands, I was leading her. When I had trouble with my boots and had to get new ones I told her to wait there. She actually eventually came out and waited for me.
In the middle of the date she invited me to another one two days later. It was a comedy show that her and some friends were going to. I accepted. I was late and because the show had started they wouldn't allow me to sit next to her so I had to sit there for whole hour.
At the end I got up and she appeared a bit mad at me. But quickly got over it and shared some food with me. Later we ended up going to a bar/restaurant to eat. There was a couple, one really hot chick, and another guy there aside from her and I. I was speaking about a friend at the table when she grabbed me and told me to stop. I jokingly asked if I was name dropping too much. She looked me in the eye and said "nobody knows you here. "Nobody cares about what your friend did." She wasn't wrong and it kinda turned me on. I love it when a woman can honestly call me out on my ****. She actually cared enough to say that.
Eventually the couple and the hot chick left and a few other guys joined in. I quickly realized that she had some serious orbiters. She joked in the face of one dude and while I was next to her that he could have ****ed her when they met in the Caribbean.
We went to one more venue, then it was time to dip. I kissed her on the cheek goodbye and that I'd text her that weekend. I waited a week to text her, went out on a date with another girl (a date I thought I did well, but that girl has since ignored my texts) and texted her saying that I enjoyed hanging out with her and I'd like to see her again.
Two days went by and got nothing. I thought it was over. Wouldn't saying I was "hurt". But I was feeling something. Then she texted me back saying "hi!" and that she has a hair show that she is going and that she will be back eventually.
I waited a day and texted her back, "nice, have a good time. "text me when you're back and I'll set something up."
That was a week ago.
What should I do? The obvious answer is meet more women. And I did meet some in the club on Saturday. But those women don't interest me.
I don't know why, but I have a weird emotion on this girl. Maybe I just want to **** her. I hate dating women and not ****ing them. Feels like a waste of time.
Should I hit her up? Wait for her and be prepared to never talk to her again?
I paid for both of us by accident (I should have bought my ticket before she came, but I waited and went with her and the cashier just assumed that I was paying for the both of us) and I thought it was kinda weird that she didn't say thank you. But whatever.
So we skated and it was rather fun. She is an interesting woman. She is seven years old than me (she is 31), she was very punk rock and still dresses in that way, but is a Mormon and won't go out to anywhere outside of Church on Sundays. She doesn't drink or smoke and never has. She is a dancer, but doesn't care for pop culture at all. In a lot of ways she is the opposite of me (I am a Christian, but rarely go to church. I drink socially and smoke a lot of weed. I am an actor and filmmaker so we have one thing in common. But I love watching films, anime, and TV shows).
I did notice how she made a lot of self deprecating jokes though perhaps indicating a low self esteem and her saying some things to try to impress me. But it was a rather fun date. We went around the ring, holding hands, I was leading her. When I had trouble with my boots and had to get new ones I told her to wait there. She actually eventually came out and waited for me.
In the middle of the date she invited me to another one two days later. It was a comedy show that her and some friends were going to. I accepted. I was late and because the show had started they wouldn't allow me to sit next to her so I had to sit there for whole hour.
At the end I got up and she appeared a bit mad at me. But quickly got over it and shared some food with me. Later we ended up going to a bar/restaurant to eat. There was a couple, one really hot chick, and another guy there aside from her and I. I was speaking about a friend at the table when she grabbed me and told me to stop. I jokingly asked if I was name dropping too much. She looked me in the eye and said "nobody knows you here. "Nobody cares about what your friend did." She wasn't wrong and it kinda turned me on. I love it when a woman can honestly call me out on my ****. She actually cared enough to say that.
Eventually the couple and the hot chick left and a few other guys joined in. I quickly realized that she had some serious orbiters. She joked in the face of one dude and while I was next to her that he could have ****ed her when they met in the Caribbean.
We went to one more venue, then it was time to dip. I kissed her on the cheek goodbye and that I'd text her that weekend. I waited a week to text her, went out on a date with another girl (a date I thought I did well, but that girl has since ignored my texts) and texted her saying that I enjoyed hanging out with her and I'd like to see her again.
Two days went by and got nothing. I thought it was over. Wouldn't saying I was "hurt". But I was feeling something. Then she texted me back saying "hi!" and that she has a hair show that she is going and that she will be back eventually.
I waited a day and texted her back, "nice, have a good time. "text me when you're back and I'll set something up."
That was a week ago.
What should I do? The obvious answer is meet more women. And I did meet some in the club on Saturday. But those women don't interest me.
I don't know why, but I have a weird emotion on this girl. Maybe I just want to **** her. I hate dating women and not ****ing them. Feels like a waste of time.
Should I hit her up? Wait for her and be prepared to never talk to her again?
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