"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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curious about the guys opnion here

Alvafe

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so what you guys think, I find this strange, but i'm curious so here is the case

some friends most single, but anyone who start to date bring the sate for the group, so its pretty chill group, but here is the strange part a girl of our group starting dating a dude, but she don't ever bring the guy with her (since most our meetings are fridays and saturdays), and last saturday another girl asked her why she never bring the dude, she said it was because I didn't like the guy, I was in the sideways not paying atencion, the girl then turned to me asking why I din't liked the dude, I didn't even remember who the dude was.

so my question is why the hell she would care what I think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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