"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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curious about the guys opnion here

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so what you guys think, I find this strange, but i'm curious so here is the case

some friends most single, but anyone who start to date bring the sate for the group, so its pretty chill group, but here is the strange part a girl of our group starting dating a dude, but she don't ever bring the guy with her (since most our meetings are fridays and saturdays), and last saturday another girl asked her why she never bring the dude, she said it was because I didn't like the guy, I was in the sideways not paying atencion, the girl then turned to me asking why I din't liked the dude, I didn't even remember who the dude was.

so my question is why the hell she would care what I think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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