“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Curious about age majority.

What age range are you in?

  • 18 - 25

    Votes: 4 6.5%
  • 26 - 35

    Votes: 19 30.6%
  • 36 - 49

    Votes: 30 48.4%
  • 50+

    Votes: 9 14.5%

  • Total voters
    62

Epimanes

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Curious to find out what age demographic this board is in... I know there's a range but to see what the majority is would be quite interesting.
 

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Hmmm.... well.. I'm 43.. so I fit in the majority so far lol..
 

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It depends, some members have been here for a long time. Myself included. I can't believe I have been a part of this board for 15 years lol. I don't post on any other board other than SoSuave. I remember the days of "AFC's", now everyone calls them "Simps".
 

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Maybe next Gen.... the new "simp/afc" word will be like "Kevin/Kyle" a name like Chad.... but for simps rather than jocks.. lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe next Gen.... the new "simp/afc" word will be like "Kevin/Kyle" a name like Chad.... but for simps rather than jocks.. lol
You’ll probably be reading a lot about a certain “Eugene” soon :)
 

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Your naturally going to see older guys here. Young guys today are to stupid and puzzy whipped to even try to figure out why they are failing with women. I work with several.
Surprising results so far. I would have expected mostly a young crowd here. Maybe the poll will change.
I bet 10 years ago there was a younger crowd, PUA was more of a "hip" thing back then. Now it's just swipe right and left.

Younger people tend to think they're more invulnerable, so they might pass off any failures to just bad luck, or "haven't met the right one yet". It could take them awhile to realize they might need to work on themselves.
 

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Surprising results so far. I would have expected mostly a young crowd here. Maybe the poll will change.
I bet 10 years ago there was a younger crowd, PUA was more of a "hip" thing back then. Now it's just swipe right and left.

Younger people tend to think they're more invulnerable, so they might pass off any failures to just bad luck, or "haven't met the right one yet". It could take them awhile to realize they might need to work on themselves.
Good points zekko
 

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I remember the days of "AFC's", now everyone calls them "Simps".
I don't think AFC and Simp are the same. I think there is an overlap. I see simps as guys giving women idolizing women on OnlyFans and Instagram. AFC's in 2005 likely had better social skills than Simps in 2021 due to less time spent behind electronic screens.

I bet 10 years ago there was a younger crowd, PUA was more of a "hip" thing back then. Now it's just swipe right and left.
There is less emphasis on in person approaching now. This was even true before the pandemic. Swiping replaced a lot of bar/nightclub approaching during the 2010s. Day game is a niche, both now and 10 or 15 years ago. Most men, then and now, don't have the guts to do non-bar approaching.

Your naturally going to see older guys here. Young guys today are to stupid and puzzy whipped to even try to figure out why they are failing with women. I work with several.
The betatization process is so subtle that young dudes or even some 35 year olds have no clue.
If you dont have that lightbulb go off in your head and say you need to learn etc etc. A guy won't find this place.

I think it could be why Rollo said dont bother trying to unplug dudes. Trial by fire kind of thing?
I also don't think a lot of guys under 26 now are using message boards. It's more of social media, mainly Instagram. I'd say it is similar for 26-35 year olds too. Though Reddit is somewhat of a thing.
 
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I think it could be why Rollo said dont bother trying to unplug dudes. Trial by fire kind of thing?
"when the student is ready the teacher will appear"

Most people aint going to wake up to anything if there isnt enough "pain" involved.
 

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Maybe the AFC name is George? Or Simon? Lol... or Kelly? Haha (no offense to anyone here named those)
 

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Still looks like younger guys are somehow representative. I mean the under30 category. Of course, it's not really a big sample so far.
But give it 10 more years, and I bet the average age will be a lot higher. I don't have much faith in the generations tuning 18 in the next few years.
 

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the current generation turning 18 will eventually be the most based of all.

To explain this, I was raised in a feminist household. I grew up with an anti male outlook. My mother and my sister both kind of were borderline, and as the youngest, I had no real protection other than my father (who my mother used the threat of divorce to keep on check)

my school was 1990s U.K. - very socialist, very feminist.

by 17 I was a revolutionary communist and almost apologising for being male.

as I got older I realised, bit by bit, the total BS I had been raised on. I am now the most outspoken opponent of socialism and feminism.

You don’t forgive people who helped and encouraged you to self harm.

my sister has done it to her boys. My nephews say things like “those guys in that van are the kind of men who don’t treat women well”. When I point out a girl with big t**ts (they are 16 for gods sake, it’s not like I am sending them to a stripclub) they are super horrified.One of them says he doesn’t believe in sex at an early age.

At their age, even with my upbringing, I was getting smashed at raves and had had sex a few times (or “done stuff”)

one of them is getting obese and has found a GF who dropped out of school.
I tried to explain to my sister that what they need is a gym regime and to understand what life is like for men. Their dad is a nice guy but he’s never been that kind of dude . They want their kids to share in their mediocrity, when you know deep down, every male wants to be an alpha and resents being a simp,

THEY all think I’m the one with the issue, that my drives to be successful and gettingwhat I want (a hot wife 11 years younger) are things to be ashamed of. I just don’t care, I am unashamedly interested in the best.

so, long detour but the kids of today when they hit 30 and they see what all this social liberalism has done for them, will end up being the most right wing and based of all.
I grew up in a pretty old-fashioned Christian family, but without being restricted too much. I was drinking and partying since 15 without them having a big problem. And I probably ended up the same as you.

I get what you're saying. But I doubt that's the case with many guys from your generation and upbringing.
I want to believe that the most radical alphas will rise out of the society that is trying to kill them off. And I think that is the case. But it's certainly not a majority. That's the problem in my opinion.
 

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Interesting... 50 votes so far..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Their age is shown under their thumbnail to the left of their posts, except for the ones who hide it. I don't hide mine. I'm 58.
How are you finding the game at 58 ? i bet theres a hella weird social dynamic in the generation of women your having to deal with kinda caught between old world and new world social dynamics ?

or is it just a lot more straight forward ? very interested to hear
 

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And tbh if we are saying the next few generations of men are going to be complete simps well i say good

Females won't just suddenly stop being attracted to dominant indifferent males in-fact i can imagine in the future a younger girl being quite literally desperate for us because her body and pu$$y will be screaming for us

Simps do not turn women on i don't care what they say it literally goes against every single grain of their biological evolution
 

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How are you finding the game at 58 ? i bet theres a hella weird social dynamic in the generation of women your having to deal with kinda caught between old world and new world social dynamics ?

or is it just a lot more straight forward ? very interested to hear
More straight forward.

Not much different than high school. There is just less in number. I might meet one or two datable women in a period of a couple months rather than 3-4 every night out. "Spinning Plates" just sounds like a laughable juvenile High School joke the way it is usually presented, but the concept of Casual Dating is more valid and that is all "plate spinning" really means anyway,...you can Casually Date even if you only have one to work with at the moment,...you're still avoiding Onteitis which is real the point anyway.

Women look for the guy with the biggest retirement package rather than biggest career,...but it is the same hypergamous story however you cut it. Same promiscuity, same lies, same deception, same flaking, same non-sense, same Incels, same Betas, same SIMPs, same White Knights, same Chads, ,...more wrinkles, more cellulite, they run slower. People don't really change. They get drunk on wine or hard stuff instead of "beer". Their kids are usually grown and out of the house. Most don't want to get married, they've been there done that maybe 2-3 times already, and they know (at +/- 60yo) they only have an average of 10-15 years left on the planet so what's the point?

My dad died in his 70's after 7 marriages, and in the hospital at the end, some woman came to visit that had to make sure to leave before his wife got there (or so I was told, ...can't prove it).
 
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Females won't just suddenly stop being attracted to dominant indifferent males in-fact i can imagine in the future a younger girl being quite literally desperate for us because her body and pu$$y will be screaming for us
The last one I sat a a table in a restaurant with, although was not "officially" a date,... was,... I think 34 to my 58, and she still had that flirtatiousness in her eye as if I was her age. So, yea, guys "hold their value",...so you have that to look forward to.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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