"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cure for oneitis

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True that it's not technically oneitis if you've had sex with her.

I don't think it's behaving like a woman to have emotions any more than it's girlie for NFL players to celebrate winning a game. It is important to learn to control them though, and it's not easy, and women do hold it against us when we show emotion toward their bad behavior.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil said:
True that it's not technically oneitis if you've had sex with her.

I don't think it's behaving like a woman to have emotions any more than it's girlie for NFL players to celebrate winning a game. It is important to learn to control them though, and it's not easy, and women do hold it against us when we show emotion toward their bad behavior.
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You mentioned its OK to show emotion to a girl , but how? i mean its hard for me to express myself to a girl i like and i do have some little emotion that i want to show her. but what are the actions you can do and must not do?
 
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You mentioned its OK to show emotion to a girl , but how? i mean its hard for me to express myself to a girl i like and i do have some little emotion that i want to show her. but what are the actions you can do and must not do?
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I don't think it's right for a man to constantly express his emotions through speech. To me this is what women do, I show my emotions through facial expressions and body language. Body language is more effective than being verbal.
 
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