"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cure for oneitis

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True that it's not technically oneitis if you've had sex with her.

I don't think it's behaving like a woman to have emotions any more than it's girlie for NFL players to celebrate winning a game. It is important to learn to control them though, and it's not easy, and women do hold it against us when we show emotion toward their bad behavior.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigneil said:
True that it's not technically oneitis if you've had sex with her.

I don't think it's behaving like a woman to have emotions any more than it's girlie for NFL players to celebrate winning a game. It is important to learn to control them though, and it's not easy, and women do hold it against us when we show emotion toward their bad behavior.
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You mentioned its OK to show emotion to a girl , but how? i mean its hard for me to express myself to a girl i like and i do have some little emotion that i want to show her. but what are the actions you can do and must not do?
 
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You mentioned its OK to show emotion to a girl , but how? i mean its hard for me to express myself to a girl i like and i do have some little emotion that i want to show her. but what are the actions you can do and must not do?
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I don't think it's right for a man to constantly express his emotions through speech. To me this is what women do, I show my emotions through facial expressions and body language. Body language is more effective than being verbal.
 
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