You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
They screw up the page when they are too large. Look at a recent post by that Madskater212 guy to see what I mean. Can we not have those?
[This message has been edited by SexPDX (edited 11-26-2002).]
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i apologize. i made it smaller but if it's that big of a deal i'll get rid of it.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
[This message has been edited by MaDsKaTeR212 (edited 11-27-2002).]
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
“Carpe Diem."
"The little things... there's nothing bigger, is there?"
"When you are sure you know something through and through... be sure, also, that by changing your perspective, you'll know nothing at all"
I'm not sure what you meant, but if you interpreted "space" as "mouse scrolling space" (verticaly long texts in other words) rather than computer diskstorage, then you are wrong.
The reason for posts get deleted is the shortage of diskstorage, the new posts overwrites the old. Lorenzo's signature is about max 621 byte (621 characters). A PICTURE is different, for instance the simple "Post reply" icon, is 2014 byte large. That's over 3 times Lorenzo's sig. A normal picture at Hotornot is 90 000 byte in size...
That's why imo images should be disable.
[This message has been edited by Squy (edited 11-28-2002).]
i did interpret it that way, i didn't know the reason for posts getting deleted.
nonetheless, that sig does take up 3/4 the page. oh well
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
I've edited my last post for more accurate data...
Imagine newbees running a "post your hot babes here", could easily get over Megs, I've seen that happen in another forum, which eventually had to disable images.
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"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
------------------ The Performer
Anthony
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN by Robert Frost Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
[This message has been edited by SxyPlayette (edited 12-06-2002).]
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i like ht pics, they add a nice touch, instead of killing htem off, make it so that we can borrow them from a different website, that way it will only have to load in the web page, and not actually be on the sosuave servers.
sota like "img src" with an "href"
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM
There was a board of girl talked about here a few month ago where you saw one line answer with HUGE pics... Pages and pages for thread with almost nothing to read. Just the same cute pics again and again. It is just like talking to someone that would always begin his answer by: "my name is... and i work at.. and i like..." Pointless!
Reading on computer is not as much enjoyable as on paper so i am more favorable of simplicity for the sake of readability.
The same reason why i dont care much about the overall design of the site: It's functionnal and i like that.
Short sigs are fine, but if you want us to know who you are, just fill-in the identification card or start another "Get to know.." thread!
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