"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Culturally diverse women?

Aengus

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I suggest a sticky for all mature DJ to post any interesting psychological or social observations they've made on woman from particular countries or cultures -- forewarned is forearmed, and if you find out some trait that you like, it's good to know where to find it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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This question could open a can of generalizations y'know...
 

jago25_98

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My last girlfriend was black so I could reply with an insight. But I don't think it would be a good idea because I'd probably be highlighting differences and inadvertantly causing racism. Not easy.

For example, look at porn. I've noticed that Japanese girls mostly just seem to lie there, white girls may go for it and black girls (not latina) take it mostly doggy style and rarely smile.

Remember this though. Actually it cuts both ways. How does she see you when you're abroad? Following UK/US wars they may see you as immoral and untrustworthy - i.e. a shag and leaver.
 

cinephile

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Not to repeat this, but it depends.

Ethinically diverse women who were born and lived here are most likely going to reflect the dominate culture that they were brought up with.

Girls who born and brought up abroad will reflect the culture form their home county.

Yeah people are essentially the same where ever you go. It is more those unique diferences that exist in every social niche that can trip up or help out a guy trying to score with whatever non white hottie he is after. So just be smart, listen, and observe, then go Mack.
 
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