"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Culturally diverse women?

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Aengus

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I suggest a sticky for all mature DJ to post any interesting psychological or social observations they've made on woman from particular countries or cultures -- forewarned is forearmed, and if you find out some trait that you like, it's good to know where to find it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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This question could open a can of generalizations y'know...
 
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My last girlfriend was black so I could reply with an insight. But I don't think it would be a good idea because I'd probably be highlighting differences and inadvertantly causing racism. Not easy.

For example, look at porn. I've noticed that Japanese girls mostly just seem to lie there, white girls may go for it and black girls (not latina) take it mostly doggy style and rarely smile.

Remember this though. Actually it cuts both ways. How does she see you when you're abroad? Following UK/US wars they may see you as immoral and untrustworthy - i.e. a shag and leaver.
 
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Not to repeat this, but it depends.

Ethinically diverse women who were born and lived here are most likely going to reflect the dominate culture that they were brought up with.

Girls who born and brought up abroad will reflect the culture form their home county.

Yeah people are essentially the same where ever you go. It is more those unique diferences that exist in every social niche that can trip up or help out a guy trying to score with whatever non white hottie he is after. So just be smart, listen, and observe, then go Mack.
 
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