Interesting post, what I would like to know is how you can or would, manifest or bring this into an ltr. It seems that ppl such as myself at times feel like once they have the girl they own her. Which would eventually lead something that was of a feeling of desire into a feeling of obligation.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cultivate feelings of attraction & desire, not feelings of obligation
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