"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cues on when a girl wants to dance

hope7

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So far, I look for these cues to predict if a girl wants to dance:
-dancing in the most crowded areas (they want to get noticed)
-her other girlfriends have guys to dance with (they feel left out)

Signals if a girl doesn't want to dance:
-dancing with only one other girl (other girl is likely to be a c0ckblock)


Are these accurate? What are cues you guys look for?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJStudent

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I dance quite a bit. So this is my observation. IF you want to know when a girl wants to dance with you? It's simple. Just make eye contact.

Look around the room. See a pretty girl and just look at her. She'll make eye contact if she's looking around. If you don't pick up one inviting feeling coming from her, then your chances are pretty low.
 

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Hm...what about asking someone to dance? It is better to say something along the lines of "Hey, wanna dance?" or to say something like "Hey, let's dance"?
 

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KillaPetehog said:
You never ask them. You just do it.
Absolutely right. If you ask them you're looking for validity. That sh!t doesn't fly. If she freaks or pulls away don't let it bother you a second. Keep on keepin' on.

I'm not much of a dancer whatsoever (I'm white and have ZERO rhythm) but Mrs. K can really throw it down. She's balls hot to watch. Guys try to ease in all the time and dance with her which I'm cool with. What ends up a guy with a cracked pool cue over his fvcking head is when he gets too close. And the hit doesn't come from me but from her. She's a fvcking firecracker :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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