"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cues on when a girl wants to dance

hope7

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So far, I look for these cues to predict if a girl wants to dance:
-dancing in the most crowded areas (they want to get noticed)
-her other girlfriends have guys to dance with (they feel left out)

Signals if a girl doesn't want to dance:
-dancing with only one other girl (other girl is likely to be a c0ckblock)


Are these accurate? What are cues you guys look for?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJStudent

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I dance quite a bit. So this is my observation. IF you want to know when a girl wants to dance with you? It's simple. Just make eye contact.

Look around the room. See a pretty girl and just look at her. She'll make eye contact if she's looking around. If you don't pick up one inviting feeling coming from her, then your chances are pretty low.
 

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Hm...what about asking someone to dance? It is better to say something along the lines of "Hey, wanna dance?" or to say something like "Hey, let's dance"?
 

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KillaPetehog said:
You never ask them. You just do it.
Absolutely right. If you ask them you're looking for validity. That sh!t doesn't fly. If she freaks or pulls away don't let it bother you a second. Keep on keepin' on.

I'm not much of a dancer whatsoever (I'm white and have ZERO rhythm) but Mrs. K can really throw it down. She's balls hot to watch. Guys try to ease in all the time and dance with her which I'm cool with. What ends up a guy with a cracked pool cue over his fvcking head is when he gets too close. And the hit doesn't come from me but from her. She's a fvcking firecracker :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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