Cuddling = Kiss of death?

[ManOMan]

I have been with several women, got them into bed, made out, but some of them won't let me go any further.

But they always force me to cuddle with them and spoon them

afterwards, I notice a sudden drop in IL(i.e.subsequent days/dates)

Has this happened to anyone else? if a chick forces you to cuddle (before any sex has even happened) is it a time to bail? or do you just go along with it?

I havent had much luck in this department

 

[DJ_Dork]

yep.

If IL drops and all she does is cuddle then yep.

 

[Hot Ice]

I don't know what you are talking about "chick forces you to cuddle"
But heh, if you mean cuddling as foreplay...
I gotta say every chick wants foreplay.
You have to get them hot and wet before sex.
Unlike men who just need to get a boner and the banging can begin.

Foreplay is vital.
ok, you've made out with several women...
eh, my question is how long?
Also if you don't get sex after making out you do it wrong!!!

It was like this chick I was with in bed yesterday.
She was really a challenge!
First she said at my place that I should sleep on a sofa!
Well a while later she was pulling my d!ck into her p*ssy...
What do you think happened between???
My hell of a good making out with her!

NATURALLY, to your question, their IL will drop if you can't get them wanting to have sex with you...

Oh, by the way:
You don't need luck if you are good.

Cheers!
- Hot Ice

 

[ManOMan]

well its like Im laying next to them, they will let me feel them up a bit, but they just turn their backs on me, and force my arm around them to snuggle with them, which makes kissing them even harder with their backs turned towards you.

this really baffles me, why would a girl with low IL in a guy even want to cuddle???

I would NEVER want to cuddle with a girl I had Low IL in.