"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crystal Deodorant

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Just letting you guys know about a great product that works extremely well.

http://www.bodycrystal.com.au/

My ex would always complain about my man oder until I was put onto this stuff by a mate. I would spray sh!t loads of any normal deodorant on and within a few hours I would be stinking again (so she said, I couldn't tell).

I have saved thousands of dollars on deodorant by now.

-It lasts over a year
-cheep
-no chemicals
-no smell (I just use colone when I want a smell)

It's just like this salt crystal that you wet then rub under your arms. Strange but it works!

You can buy it from most chemists.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I use a salt crystal deodorant myself, although a different brand. It's a good investment. I'm totally against deodorants that block your natural ability to sweat.
 

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I use a different brand also (couldn't find the site) but have used this brand. They are made out of mineral salts or something.
 

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Falcon said:
I use a salt crystal deodorant myself, although a different brand. It's a good investment. I'm totally against deodorants that block your natural ability to sweat.
I heard anti-perspirants could give you breast cancer (even a dude! lol)
 

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Create Reality said:
I heard anti-perspirants could give you breast cancer (even a dude! lol)
hehe yea, I wouldn't be surprised if it did raise your risk at that. That's something I can do without! :rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where can I get this stuff in Cali?

I heard yogurt and pineapple also help eliminate body odors cuz they have enzymes that cut odor causing compounds.
 

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I remember using something like that once as a teen and it worked. I think all it is is basically a big salt crystal. You could probably make it at home by super saturating some water with salt and then letting the water evaporate until the salt crystalizes.
 

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are these really better than commercial deoderants?

i know i'm definitley a stinker from every pore, orifice and appendage :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your ****ing me.. I always thought this was just another new-age type 'gimmick'. This stuff actually works you say? I'll have to check it out when my breast cancer causing spray deodorant runs out. :D
 

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JohnnyIrish said:
Your ****ing me.. I always thought this was just another new-age type 'gimmick'. This stuff actually works you say? I'll have to check it out when my breast cancer causing spray deodorant runs out. :D
exactly, i always thought stuff like this was full of sh!t

its just i've tried everything i can, and even while showering 3-4 times a day i still stink, so i guess its time for a change
 

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speakeasy said:
I remember using something like that once as a teen and it worked. I think all it is is basically a big salt crystal. You could probably make it at home by super saturating some water with salt and then letting the water evaporate until the salt crystalizes.
Could you just rub some salt in your armpits?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Could you just rub some salt in your armpits?
no, It's made of special mineral salts that kill bacteria. It only costs $10 so don't bother.
 

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onthepath said:
are these really better than commercial deoderants?

i know i'm definitley a stinker from every pore, orifice and appendage :(
Much better then commercial ones. They take a few days of use to start working properly though. Must need to build up a layer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maxtro said:
Wow the website claims it can last one year with proper use and it only costs $5.99.
A year you say? Does it also slice and dice, make Julian fries, and only cost 19.95? lol

Maybe it does work but I swear it sounds like it fits in the 'too good to be true' category.
 

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Yeah I'm just lying, don't bother listening to me.

If you read my post I already told you guys it lasts over one year. I've used this product for over 4 years now.
 

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i'm definitley gonna give this a go
can you use this all over your body so it'll stop stink from anywhere, or does it only work on places like your armpits?

also, can you mix it with otherproducts, like with an antipersperent? or would the chemicals react with the mienrals and stuff everything up?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Where can I get this stuff in Cali?

I heard yogurt and pineapple also help eliminate body odors cuz they have enzymes that cut odor causing compounds.
In CA...I live there and I've bought it at CVS. I'm sure it's at other major pharmacies (Rite Aid, Walgreens, even Target).

I like it cause it doesn't stain my precious shirts :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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