"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crying

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its not okay for a man to cry. Ever. STOP IT. There are worse things in the world but there is absolutely no reason for a man to cry.

It is not necessary and should not be done. PERIOD. Even when no one else is around.
 

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If your body and mind possess the capability to express an emotion then logically somewhere in our human development that emotional expression has served a purpose.

Otherwise we would not be capable of if.

If all of life is centered around the final act of sex, since without sex life cannot continue and life strives to continue, somewhere along the line crying helped you get more sex.

Crying may have allowed you to release pain and become more positive and in the end become more attractive

Or the act of crying may have emotionally impacted/manipulated certain people in certain actions, such as communal understanding and help after you’ve lost a loved one.

To completely deny any emotion is to deny part of your humanity. I always cry when I lose loved ones for example, it's natural in many species and frankly when I lose a loved one I'm ****ing sad and don't want to keep it all bottled up. To cry when loved ones are lost helps us cope and recover faster.

If you're randomly crying on front of women at clubs to get attention you need to be slapped because you're too stupid to be a member of the human species and can't see how reality works vs. how so called "techniques" apply to it.

If you're crying at a funeral no one will think less of you and it will be completely natural and I think, necessary. You can also cry during extremely positive emotional circumstances where you "finally achieve something great" or when your house burns down and 100 people chip in $1000 to help you out and you're so grateful you just don't have any other way to express your pride in your fellow man.

War veterans cry when thinking of fallen buddies.

There is a time and place for everything and crying helps to keep you emotionally balanced in certain situations.
 

Boner da Stoner

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I like walking with the girls and pretending to cry.

When I tease her and she pretends to punch me I can pull off a good sob. Like right down on the ground heaving my chest and tears, the sounds. Than she gets right down and feels SOOOOO BAD!!! haha I love it.

But yeah, sometimes you HAVE to cry, or your cruel. Like I was working, and I got a call that my dog passed away, had it since I was like 5yo and stayed with me until I was 20. I cried like a ****in baby in front of all my co workers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kk2004

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My god

I cant believe we have a topic on crying. Because it honestly shouldnt matter what a woman may think...thats retarted, who cares if its 12% or less that they dont care we cry and it wont demasculate you. If you cry and she has a problem with that then tell her that if she didnt have boobs she would be a man.

I mean it doesnt matter...If you feel sad and you happen to cry then it just happens, most people dont cry outside but not because they hold it in, just because it doesnt happen.

The realm of crying should not be thought apon with a woman in mind, you cry from yourself not for anyone else.

Forget Sex and women they have nothing to do with Men and our crying
 

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Originally posted by Mr Spitfire
Its not okay for a man to cry. Ever. STOP IT. There are worse things in the world but there is absolutely no reason for a man to cry.

It is not necessary and should not be done. PERIOD. Even when no one else is around.
yea.... even if your mama died? or yo papi died? You either have no tear ducts, or you internalize everything and are a serial killer.......
 

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Re: My god

Originally posted by kk2004

The realm of crying should not be thought apon with a woman in mind, you cry from yourself not for anyone else.
Exactly! That's the essens right there. It doesn't matter what people think, 'cause you're a DJ and don't give a ****
 

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mOST RETARDED THREAD OF THE YEAR.

RESEARCH SHOWS THAT 4% OF GIRLS LIKE GUYS WHO FART THEN SNIFF THEIR ASS SOMEHOW AFTER THAT.
 

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I cried once with my ex LTR...

It was when we were together 6 months..
We went abroad and I rented a nice hotel, they promised me to give me a special suite and everything.. payed lots money for it (hey I wanted it to be special. After all she told me she would never leave me haha :p)

I put the key in the roomlock, we kiss. We enter the room and I'm like.. :eek: :confused:

She looks at me confused and says.. "it's not as big as I suspected" (it looked like ****, the bathtub was rusty,..)

and I cried :( :(

It actually felt like I was crying for everything anyone has ever done to me.. Like I just reverted to a little baby, crying.
Look at Fight club, how Jack cries at the groups.. something like that.

Cried for like half an hour, I couldn't stop. She kept trying to calm me down and say it was fine.

I was finally calm again (yet thinking of murdering the hotel keeper) then my dad called to ask me how the room was...

Bah. I actually still feel bad about it :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only time I started crying in front of my girlfriend was when something bad happened to my girlfriends grandfather who I am friends with and when I drove in an exit only (no one was coming and someone stole the do not enter signs) and she started yelling at me. It was a very sad time in my life. It wasn't pretty.

comic_relief
 

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If my mother died, I might cry.

I hope I don't because its not okay for a man to cry. EVER. STOP CRYING. BE A MAN. Take your medicine.

Are you crying? STOP IT.
 

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It seems like most of you are scared of looking like a wuss...

like crying is gonna make you look weak...

and again I say... WHO GIVES A F*CK!!

Real men are comfortable in their own skin.

If you care that much what other people think, YOU'RE weak.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'll cry whenever i want, and not feel bad about it and i won't make excuses about it, not to you guys, not to anybody, it's our right to cry as it is to smile.
 

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A man should cry over something that is actually important. Death, his kid being born, or even being at the lowest point in his life are worth crying over. The quality that truly defines a man is, that when the crying has stopped, he gets up and gets on with his life.
 

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crying is weakness.

be a fcking man. bottle that sh1t up inside.
 

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I've cried twice in my life (excluding when I was a toddler of course).

First time was when I reformatted my HD and forgot to backup my magnificent 20gig pr0n-collection. I'd spent several years to find the cream of the cream pr0n. To this day, I still get wet-eyed when I think back to that fateful day.

Second time was when my d*ck got caught in my zipper. I was humping this chick in my room, when my roommate thought it would be funny to scare the sh*t out of me. He came barging through the door, screaming "Campus police, this is a raid" (I had some illegal substances laying around). I jumped up, and zipped up. But unfortnatly my d*ck got caught in the zipper. The pain almost gave me a black out, I remember I was laying in fetous position and crying for an hour.


Besides those two incidents, I've never cried in front of a b*tch. B*tches don't have that kind of control over me.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by C00L
crying is weakness.

be a fcking man. bottle that sh1t up inside.

exactly, that is how men naturally deal with problems and we are damn good at it. To do otherwise would be to go against basic instincts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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