"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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.Paradox. said:
F*cking sigh....... This sucks. And hurts. Not only because I feel like an assh0le but also because she was a legit awesome girl. It's not like she's one of those dirty ho's slutting it up every weekend. She was 18 and, I'm sure, just having some fun and going a little wild like everyone else at that age and got it from a guy who didn't tell her that he had it.

More like she was/is a huge slut and that's how she got it. And I mean HUGE slut.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sue Madre said:
More like she was/is a huge slut and that's how she got it. And I mean HUGE slut.
You're out of line and an idiot.. 1/4 or 1/5 of the U.S population has GENITAL HERPES (20%-30%). Most of the people who have genital herpes don't even know they have it, plus it can still be spread when an infected person isn't having an outbreak. If a sexual partner doesn't tell you that they have it you may never find out.
 

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You're out of line and an idiot.. 1/4 or 1/5 of the U.S population has GENITAL HERPES (20%-30%). Most of the people who have genital herpes don't even know they have it, plus it can still be spread when an infected person isn't having an outbreak. If a sexual partner doesn't tell you that they have it you may never find out.

Well I know a few women who have herpes and they were huge sluts until they found a chump to take them in.
 

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It´s not an easy situation. Genital herpes is not he worse STD and you simply may not even contract it. Still, you´d be forced to be carefull every time you had sex...

My friend, I´m sorry, but it seems it´s up to you.



Best wishes!
 

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If it were oral herpes (HSV-1), I would've said go ahead since over 80% of the world is exposed to it, but most are asymptomatic. HSV-1 can be acquired as early as around 6 months after birth.

HSV-2 (genital herpes), on the other hand, is almost always acquired sexually, hence it's occurrence in an individual usually around mid-to-late teenage years.

Exposure to HSV-1 usually reduces the risk of acquiring HSV-2 after exposure and additionally explains the lower incidence of HSV-2, although HSV-2 is on the rise.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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.Paradox. said:
You're out of line and an idiot.. 1/4 or 1/5 of the U.S population has GENITAL HERPES (20%-30%). Most of the people who have genital herpes don't even know they have it, plus it can still be spread when an infected person isn't having an outbreak. If a sexual partner doesn't tell you that they have it you may never find out.
How about being responsible and getting tested between partners. Or screwing people who are clean. Or screwing people who dont come off dirty.

Theres a lot to be told in a personality, and I have yet to meet or hear of someone with an STD where I didnt say "wow im surprised that happened to them"

Sucks for your gal and Im betting she didnt wear a condom.
 
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