crush said NO-ihow not to get hurt

[joe45]

how do you keeps yourself from getting hurt? lets say you like this gal. you believe she like you-gives you glances and looks, but never initiates conversation with you-even though u initate it with him. you get the idea from the glances that she's interested in you. so you ask him out, he says NO and gives you an excuse-i'm busy....something

what do you do if you really like this guy and you have build in feelings for him b/c you also believe he likes you. i didn't act on it on time-this gal has been in several of my courses, but never has once came up to me and i never came up to her-to talk. i think and am pretty sure she likes me or i think she does by the glances.
1 more month till school finishes and all the wasted time, if i don;t ask her out again -i won't be seeing her again .

i been checking out other gals wit the idea of her-catching a glimpse of what is happening -and i see that she has a big frown and mad look directed at me when this happens. sometimes she even says under her breath "aalways checkin out other girls", "what a flirt",....not sure if she is playin or really likes me but wayyyy too shy to go out or even flirt.what do u guys think of this action.

has anyone of you liked someone sooo much and when u ask em out they said No, even though you thought they would say Yes.

 

[JH6]

get more girls and improve your social value, keep talking to her but kind of ignore her.

keep her at bay..

I've got a similar situation, crush doesn't want me as more than a friend and it hurts for like two seconds, then what you do is start dating two or three girls at once, and you sort of forget about her.

Then out of the blue she'll call you and asks you out for coffee.

You tell her yeah i have an hour or so, and you make it a short date and make her want more.

Then like a week later call her out of the blue and say hey i've got a few hours on saturday want to do this or this.

Give her two options, we can either go to A or B your choice, if she says nah i can't go without giving a good reason then next her.

If shes like yeah but i'm having an operation, they she has earned one more chance.

Thats how you figure out her interest level.

When you go on the date, for god sakes kino the hell out of her. Do it do it.

 

[insidious]

JH6 is right. Regardless of whether you make actual moves on other interesting chicks, the point is to have them in mind. Keep the possibilities in mind. The rejections aren't so stinging when you know that tomorrow chick number 1-B might still smile and listen to your bullshyt