I know! I know! most of the people reading this thread's title will be thinking that this guy is playing with fire: you don't dip your pen into the company's ink. Luckily for me , I am not that AFC and feel that I am capable of approaching situations with tact. Normally I would be wise and wouldn't let anything take any precedence over my career because I believe that it is most important for me to look after myself. How the hell do I get myself into such a situation and develop a oneitis with a woman I work alongside with? I have been single for a while and haven't been going out to places where I could meet new chicks. The only chicks I get to see are the ones from work. That is not to say that this chick that I am after is not worth it just because I don't have that many options. On the contrary, I tend to be very picky when it comes to women and get crushes only once in a full moon. Now this chick is a 8 in my mind; may be considered a 7 by others. It is not her physical beauty that attracted me most to her. It is her attitude and outlook in life that give her the appeal. I will use adjectives to describe the way she is: adventurous, professional, hyperactive, self-absorbed, able to stand up for herself, somewhat irrational. A lot of you might be asking why would I want that in a girl; I say to each his own. Anyways to describe my relationship with her so far. I have been working at her company for only 1 month; which means I had only known her for a month. To most of the girls that work at the company, I had tried my best to appear as a suave as could be. I would constantly bust at them and tease them about many things. The crush of mine had also been a victim of my playfulness but to a lesser extent than the others. The reason is purely coincidental; she didn't happen to be around where I was hanging out as much as the other girls. I would not get out of my way to give her more attention than the other girls even though she meant more to me. I hope that with time, I will be able to bust on her more because I have good ideas on what to bust on her; I mentioned earlier that she does some irrational things, good opportunity HUH? Anyways I am confused about what I should do next. I have some questions that I hope some DJs here can respond to:
Have I done good so far? (I don't think she is aware that I have a crush on her since I don't give her more attention than other girls)
What more can I do to make myself more hot to her?
What should I by all means not do, because it will extinguish every trace of goodwill she has had of me?
Is she worth pursuing or should I abandon it altogether?
Should I just SINK or SWIM and tell her outright that I have feelings for her and suffer the consequences if she says NO?
Have I done good so far? (I don't think she is aware that I have a crush on her since I don't give her more attention than other girls)
What more can I do to make myself more hot to her?
What should I by all means not do, because it will extinguish every trace of goodwill she has had of me?
Is she worth pursuing or should I abandon it altogether?
Should I just SINK or SWIM and tell her outright that I have feelings for her and suffer the consequences if she says NO?