Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Crunching out an abs routine

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Obviously, visible abs are mostly about having a low body fat percentage.

Beyond that, I see a lot of disagreement about ab routines. All I've been doing is crunches, and I have two-pack abs with a shadow of a 4-pack. I was trying to look up whether crunches work the upper abs or all of them, and people disagree about that, too. Crunches work all abs, but predominantly the upper?

The main disagreement is about the 4-6 pack lower abs. Some people say your specific exercise matters, and others say it is all about body fat.

When I was in Army rotc in the 90's, they made us do what they called "flutter kicks." You lay on the ground and prop yourself up by folding your hands together behind your back, then stick your legs out straight and paddle your feet up and down. Years later, the army abandoned the flutter kick because they decided it was bad for soldiers' backs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomo

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I've found it's more diet than exercise. Naturally your muscles will have their own contours of a six-pack and it's simply losing the excess weight until they appear. Now if you are actually 'working' those muscles out, then train them like any other muscle - add weights. I do side bends holding onto weights, rotational stuff with a cable machine and sit-ups using a weighted gym ball that I kind of alternate throwing side-side. Traditionally I still like doing planks.
 

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For me as a powerlifter, I just do abdominal exercises that will strengthen my core, cause that will carry over to my squat/deadlift.. Usually weighted exercises work best for me.

I say to each their own depending on their goals. It depends on the individual, gotta find what is working and what isnt working..
 

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"Get Rid of Your Gut: Look Better, Feel Better, Prevent Back Pain in Only 64 Minutes a Week"
by Jeanette Micelotta, Richard M Bachrach (Introduction by), Deborah Michaels

It's an older book - maybe 1980s.

Find a copy. The regimen boils down to 6 exercises, each working a different part of your abdominals. It also introduces what's called an 'abdominal lift' to be held through each exercise.
 

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How to get a six pack?

Lower Your Body Fat (Through dieting and exercise)
Don't keep doing the same ab exercises every time you go to the gym. Try different variations.

There are lots but here are some of the most effective ab workouts that have helped me get ripped abs.

Hanging Leg Raises
Barbell Ab Roll-out
Cable Crunches
Planks
Bottoms Up (laying on floor or bench)
Russian Twists
Cross-body crunches
Decline Oblique Crunch

If you're gonna rely on crunches alone to get ripped abs forget about it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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