"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cruel Intentions

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Has anyone else here seen this movie with Ryan Phillippe, Reese Witherspoon, and Sarah Michelle Gellar? After watching it, I was like whoa... Sebastian, played by Ryan, is the man! First thing that came to my mind was master don juan. The guy can manipulate any girl.... I recommend renting this if yall have never seen the movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yep, heavy movie
 

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I saw this a long time ago, don't remember much. I love the song by the verve that is played at the end though, "bittersweet symphony". Awesome fit with the situation.
 

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when i first saw that film, it was pre sosuave, and i thought, i am going to be him, although at the time i thought some of the later stuff he played was pretty stupid.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sebastian is actually a well established Don Juan. At the end, he stuck up for everything he was and lost his one true love. He was busy playing the game and wasn't ready to actually find Her. I think many of us have gone/will go through that. He then did everything in his power to correct what happened. But it was too late.

Great movie.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Sebastian is actually a well established Don Juan. At the end, he stuck up for everything he was and lost his one true love. He was busy playing the game and wasn't ready to actually find Her. I think many of us have gone/will go through that. He then did everything in his power to correct what happened. But it was too late.

Great movie.

But the reason he fails (or kind of succeeds after his death) is because he is wrapped around Sarah Michelle's breats. He wants what he can't have (like most of us) and is driven to desperation by it, she out wits him as she knows exactly what he wants. She is a challenge and plays all his games back to him, the perfect foil for Ryan Phillipe.

In fact i think he is weak, he does not have any interest in th girls he seduces, it is a game to him, but like any game, eventually his luck and skill fail him. In addition, he does not have to destroy people in order to get where he is. He cares about his reputation and when it looks in danger of crumbling because he has been unable to seduce someone (Reese), he falls easy prey to Sarah MGs revenge scheme.
 

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I bought the movie about a year ago, just watched it again last night. Its a good movie, better than the 2nd one all though that shower scene in the 2nd one is pretty damn good...:p
 

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hehe, i just downloaded it again, always cracks me up.
 
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