The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Anyone out there got methods of avoiding/hindering the ball sweat? When i wear pants in the summer it gets uncomfortable sometimes to walk around.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Try witch hazel , it not only eliminates odours, but also decrease sweating a little bit.Originally posted by The Bartender
Anyone out there got methods of avoiding/hindering the ball sweat? When i wear pants in the summer it gets uncomfortable sometimes to walk around.
Never thought of that...I'll try it outOriginally posted by al77
Try witch hazel , it not only eliminates odours, but also decrease sweating a little bit.
You can find it in any farmacy, it is liquid so you gotta buy a spray bottle to use it efficiently. It is also very cheap.
It might also work as a natural deodorant. When you spary it, it has some odour, but after a couple of minutes it's completely gone. Very cool stuff if you dont want to deal with some weird chemicals they use in deodorants, especially in anti-perspirants.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sure. Thats what I use it for. It is a deodorant - it eliminates odors, for example like baking soda does. But unlike baking soda, witch hazel is in liquid form and can be easily used anywhere.Originally posted by familyguyfan
Is witch hazel only good for there or would you be able to use it under your arms as well?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gold Bond and sweat turn into paste. GB works fine for itching but I would never recommend it when you are sweating.Originally posted by diablo
Lather anti-bacterial soap down there when taking a bath, then run to the store and buy "CertainDry" (over the counter). Use it sparingly on the affected areas - rub it around so it doesn't cause irritation. You may want to consider liberal amounts of gold bond powder throughout the day if you're really gung-ho about it...