"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Crotch Sweat

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Anyone out there got methods of avoiding/hindering the ball sweat? When i wear pants in the summer it gets uncomfortable sometimes to walk around.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by The Bartender
Anyone out there got methods of avoiding/hindering the ball sweat? When i wear pants in the summer it gets uncomfortable sometimes to walk around.
Try witch hazel , it not only eliminates odours, but also decrease sweating a little bit.

You can find it in any farmacy, it is liquid so you gotta buy a spray bottle to use it efficiently. It is also very cheap.
It might also work as a natural deodorant. When you spary it, it has some odour, but after a couple of minutes it's completely gone. Very cool stuff if you dont want to deal with some weird chemicals they use in deodorants, especially in anti-perspirants.
 

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Re: Re: Crotch Sweat

Originally posted by al77
Try witch hazel , it not only eliminates odours, but also decrease sweating a little bit.

You can find it in any farmacy, it is liquid so you gotta buy a spray bottle to use it efficiently. It is also very cheap.
It might also work as a natural deodorant. When you spary it, it has some odour, but after a couple of minutes it's completely gone. Very cool stuff if you dont want to deal with some weird chemicals they use in deodorants, especially in anti-perspirants.
Never thought of that...I'll try it out
 

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Is witch hazel only good for there or would you be able to use it under your arms as well?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Is witch hazel only good for there or would you be able to use it under your arms as well?
Sure. Thats what I use it for. It is a deodorant - it eliminates odors, for example like baking soda does. But unlike baking soda, witch hazel is in liquid form and can be easily used anywhere.

I use witch hazel all the time instead of commercial deodorants since I believe it is quite harmful in the long run to apply those chemicals constantly on the same spots.

Interesting that deodorizing is not its primiry function, here is the quote:
"witch hazel may be applied topically for external haemorrhoids, varicose veins, bruises, sprains and localised inflamed swellings, spots and blemishes. It can also be applied to insect bites and minor burns such as sunburn. ".
 

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The Bartender,

By the way, make sure everything you wear is 100% cotton.
If it is mostly polyester or anything else there is no wonder you may sweat a lot...
 

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D@mn it! This thread is reminding me of that commercial with a mother and daughter walking along a beach discussing having that "not so fresh" feeling.
 

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Lather anti-bacterial soap down there when taking a bath, then run to the store and buy "CertainDry" (over the counter). Use it sparingly on the affected areas - rub it around so it doesn't cause irritation. You may want to consider liberal amounts of gold bond powder throughout the day if you're really gung-ho about it...
 

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And my god man if you dont already do it, trim your pubes! Keep em around 1-2 cm long and you should stay comfortable...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by diablo
Lather anti-bacterial soap down there when taking a bath, then run to the store and buy "CertainDry" (over the counter). Use it sparingly on the affected areas - rub it around so it doesn't cause irritation. You may want to consider liberal amounts of gold bond powder throughout the day if you're really gung-ho about it...
Gold Bond and sweat turn into paste. GB works fine for itching but I would never recommend it when you are sweating.
 

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crotch sweat is sexy. turns girls on
 
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