"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crock in trouble!

Sisko

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Warning: Read the tekst before looking at the picture, THIS IS NOT FOR THE

FAINT HEARTED !!!

At times nature can be cruel, but there is also a raw beauty, and even a
certain justice manifested within that cruelty. The crocodile, one of the
oldest and ultimate predators, normally considered the "apex predator", can
still fall victim to implemented 'team work' strategy, made possible due to
the tight knit social structure and "survival of the pack mentality" bred
into the canines.. See the remarkable photograph attached, courtesy of

Nature
Magazine. Note that the Alpha dog has a muzzle hold on the croc' preventing
it from breathing, while another dog has a hold on the tail to keep it from
thrashing. The third dog attacks the soft underbelly of the croc'. Not for

the squeamish!

Picture: http://rapidshare.com/files/87082225/crock.bmp
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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picture doesn't work, and I don't feel like downloading anything
 

Obsidian

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sweet video, Damage. True friends will always have your back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol
 
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