"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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critique my text

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I just saw a giraffe on TV it reminded me of you :p

I THOUGHT YOU COULDNT TEXT

I bet my night and weekend will be better than yours ;)

Oh. Poo

Great ethuasiam so whats up?

Netflix

Watching what?

You

Damn u girls are kinkier than u led on

Don't u know it ;)

I eat girls like you for breakfast ur just an appetizer maybe

Appetizer for breaky? Wow, aren't you a high maintenance

Yeah I'll kick ur butt.......as tinny as it is

That was a compliment

That was yesterday, she started ignoring me after that.
Today I sent her
I just had the most awesome day. How was yours?
No response. Where did I mess up?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Better question is where didn't you mess up?
 
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GettinMyMindRight said:
You implied she was a cheap h0r that was being stalked via Netflix by you.

I don't know where you messed up. :rolleyes:
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No, I asked what she was watching. How do I salvage this?
 
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This girl is ignoring you, have some freaking pride for gods sake!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sounds like you like her, this is difficult, from past experiences girls usually dont start texting you again when they're ignoring you

that is why you dont text, you use the phone to set up dates, i learned that on this site and its golden advice

girls can lose interest fast when texting, mainly because in reality they're probably texting a few guys and in reality those guys are all too beta to call the girl grow a pair and ask her out on a real date

man up, when you get a girls number call her and set up a real date

but right now the best thing you can do is go ghost, wait a minimum of 2 weeks before attempting to text her again.

if she doesnt answer, you wait a day or two and deploy a last chance text

one that worked for me a few times is something like this

"i guess you're not interested in talking anymore, that's fine, i can understand that, well i still think your'e a cutie, and i hope you find the right guy for you :)"

a text like that shows her you're not waiting for her to reply and you're not waiting for her. And that it doesn't really bother you if she does or doesn't answer
 
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I want to text her 'cut the crap, I like you and you like me too. I'll give you one last chance for us to get to know each other better'.
 
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...quit texting her crap like this. You wanna chit chat, do it in person. Never through text. Only use texts to set up dates.
 
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thatdude156 said:
I want to text her 'cut the crap, I like you and you like me too. I'll give you one last chance for us to get to know each other better'.
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you can but youll never hear from her again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I thought it was pretty good... Self amusing and stuff. She probably lost interest because of other stuff or wasnt interested in first place.
 
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"I'm desperate and have no dignity or pride. PLEASE go out with me *sob*"
 
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I'm sure everyone agrees what I said is pretty useful, your text is not bad. But THIS GIRL DOES NOT LIKE YOU, NO SEXUAL INTEREST, NO INTEREST. IN ANY WAY. NOTING YOU COULD DO
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I guess your not interesting in talking anymore. That's cool, I under stand. I still think your a cutie and I hope you find someone right for you :) good luck in college



Wow, hey! Long time no talk! Betcha took like an hour to type that up ^^


Lmao ignoring this bish until she sends me something more if not I'm done with her.
Crazy **** thought she was better than me.
 
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thatdude156 said:
I guess your not interesting in talking anymore. That's cool, I under stand. I still think your a cutie and I hope you find someone right for you :) good luck in college
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Did you actually text that to her?

oh god.... so whack
 
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narcissist said:
Did you actually text that to her?

oh god.... so whack
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Don't even try with this kid. Stubborn as can be
 
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