Rebound...You just don't get it. I would have zero interest in meeting you. I am sure most people (male or female) feel the same exact way. Why? Simply because you act like practically 80% of the suburban non-black boys in America. You live in a boring suburban community. There is nothing to do. So, you emulate the one group that seems to be getting something out of life. The one group that seems to be living life on the edge. That group happens to be black thugs who end up in prison or dead.
Tell me...Why would anyone want to meet a Chinese dude that is like everyone else around them? You should try and distance yourself from the pack. This entire forum is filled with people who just don't get it. The secret is to be unique. That is the key. Be who you are. Love the haters. Love the fact that your old friends think that you are no longer "cool".
If I was your typical spoiled, chunky American girl I would want a guy who was either worth about $10 million...OR...who was something that didn't remind me of my boring life. Last time I checked, BET and ESPN were the prefered stations among boring suburban American boys.
One last time...DIFFERENT IS SEXY.