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Critique my messaging please

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zinc4

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Ok, guys, i have never used the ****y funny stuff through messaging and quite frankly, i don't message often so my skills are probably bad....here are 2 girls i got facebook info from...one a now former coworker who just quit...and the other some random chick off the street who has a BF...

Here is the message conversation from the former co-worker who i really want to get with by the way..note that the first time she said no to a date idea it was very very short notice..mistake on my part:

Zinc4
hey what are u up to
Friday

3:04pm
Jacqueline
Hi not much, how about yourself?
Friday

9:47pm
Zinc4
good, had a pool tournament last night..what are you up to tomorrow? there is Christmas party at the river if you want to go i also know a good Mexican resturaunt in Jhongli

11:15pm
Jacqueline
Oh, I'm sorry I can't. I'm going to Taipei tomorrow... Thanks for inviting me
Saturday

11:40am
Zinc4
no worries! i am asking a lot of people to join our group for a beer pong tournament...also, we should go out and have some fun next week, what's your schedule like
Today

3:39pm
Jacqueline
Yeah we should, but I am busy this week, with the moving and the paper for the final...and I'm going back to Tainan (her home, 6 hours away) for the new years. So...
Today

10:13pm
Zinc4
geez, you are already making me wait...did you somehow talk to my ex-girlfriends, did they tell you to do that? congrats on the new job by the way (she is changing jobs)

I feel like her interest level is not good, but you never know i guess...looking back on this convo, i can already see some obvious mistakes, but please point out anything you see, i need to get better at naturally teasing women without having to get buzzed or drunk to put me in a good enough relaxed mood...

This girl from street...i have no expectations from her because she has a BF just practicing:

Zinc4
hey you have a boyfriend? (she didn't tell me before i got her FB info..saw it on her status)

10:14pm
Jie Lin Lu
YEP

10:14pm
Zinc4
good thing that i don't get jealous easily

10:15pm
Jie Lin Lu
HA HA

10:15pm
Zinc4
how about that movie sometime

10:16pm
Jie Lin Lu
Only you and me?

10:17pm
Zinc4
isn't that the best way?
i can keep secrets you know

10:18pm
Jie Lin Lu
ha ha i am afraid that my boyfriend won't want me to go

10:18pm
Zinc4
hello! secret

10:18pm
Jie Lin Lu
ha ha ha

10:19pm
Zinc4
you are so naughty
i better be careful with you....you gave your phone number to a stranger

10:20pm
Jie Lin Lu
i didn't give you my number

10:21pm
Zinc4
well, only facebook, that means you are only half way bad
congratulations!

10:21pm
Jie Lin Lu
ha ha ha

10:21pm
Zinc4
so you like scary movies or comedy
i bet you like horro movies...you are just that kind of scary girl

10:22pm
Jie Lin Lu
ha ha

10:23pm
Zinc4
ok, we make a rule...a movie, but no kisses

10:24pm
Jie Lin Lu
maybe we can chat next time for i have a Franch test tomorrow

10:24pm
Zinc4
it's French....duh!

10:24pm
Jie Lin Lu
thank you:)

10:25pm
Zinc4
what is Franch?

10:25pm
Jie Lin Lu
oh~sorry
ha ha
my bad

10:25pm
Zinc4n
lol...no worries

10:26pm
Jie Lin Lu
i didn't notice

10:26pm
Zinc4
good luck on your Franch test

10:26pm
Jie Lin Lu
ha ha ha
well... thank you
XD

10:27pm
Zinc4
ok, later
 

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Chamber36

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I am no text master, but your first conversation looked like a truck crashed & burned. You might as well delete that number.

The second one, you started off bad imo with the boyfriend and managed to squirm your way into a casual "as friends" rendez-vous. So not bad on that one. You stayed positive. All u gotta do is find out if she wants to meet up another time.

Your first convo went wrong with this message:

9:47pm
Zinc4
good, had a pool tournament last night..what are you up to tomorrow? there is Christmas party at the river if you want to go i also know a good Mexican resturaunt in Jhongli

You could have just said: "Do you want to meet up tomorrow?"

As a rule I try to keep messages as short as possible, and the conversations as concise as possible.
 
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yeah, i am just out of the loop with messaging..much better in person for whatever reason, some more input from anyone please because most of the girls here are much more comfortable with messaging first because of the language barrier...easier for them to type then talk on phone.....thanks
 
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