critique my game plan please, starting 3rd yr in college

[thechosenone2190]

Hi guys,

I'm starting my 3rd year in college, and I'm still a newbie and virgin. I created the following plan for this year so I can change all that. Please provide feedback on whether my game plan is good, or if there is any way to improve it so I have the highest success rate.

1. sit next to girl in class/say hi to girl in elevator/tap girl on shoulder/say "excuse me" to moving target
2. 3 options
a. ask neutral question eg. did we have hw?
b. make neutral side comment eg. this elevator takes forever, eventually ask for name and introduce each other
c. just say "hi!" with a smile, give my name, ask for her name, where you from, what's it like living there
d. say "i thought you were really cute and just wanted to say hi", ask for name, where you from, etc.
3. aim to keep conversation going for at least 5 min, practice crazy good listening skills, let her talk 60% of the time, act like my natural self without worrying about saying the right thing
4. number close by saying "i got to get going, but let me give you call some time. what's your phone number?" smile and hold smile until she answers
5. repeat with 1000 other girls

Does this game plan sound good to you guys? Will this give me the highest success rate? I plan to do this with every girl hot enough for my standards within sight (hb 7's and above). If there's a better way of doing this with the next hundred girls, please let me know now.

Will this game plan hurt my reputation or image on campus? It is a mid-sized university with several thousand students in my grade, but you do tend to bump into the same people occasionally.

-Colin

 

[benassi]

I'd suggest you do a ****-load of reading on the game before you go ahead and sabotage all opportunities at hand. You can go out there and 'tap' girls on the shoulder and do all those things you mentioned that ONLY build COMFORT, and you'll be one popular best-friend to every girl, and you'll graduate college still a virgin. You need to learn how to be ATTRACTIVE and how to build INTERESTING conversation, not bull**** general questions. I'd suggest you start with some basic books on the game... Find the book, Magic Bullets by Savoy or The Venusian Arts by Mystery - read those, then go approach and have fun.

Always remember, the best experience is always somebody else's. Don't waste opportunities by trying to seek answers that are already readily available around you.

Best of luck.

 

[thechosenone2190]

i've read the dj bible, been on the rippetoe workout for yrs, have leadership roles on campus, studying harder than ever to keep grades up, and loading up on work experience.

does that count?

 

[j0n24]

First and foremost I would keep your grades up....it would be a waste of money to spend on getting a C/D/F/W just because you were chasing tail.

I really like C and D though....talking to any girl is always a plus on campus and I've had success just talking to anyone...hell I accidentally called a girl the wrong name and still was able to close with sexx.

I would NOT tap girls on the shoulder though from behind....it for lack of a better word is pathetic. From a girls perspective its an easy way to say creepy and on the girls side its plain afc. Just have confidence and say excuse me or hey and begin talking.

Easy thing to do in college I've noticed is set lunch dates or a walk around campus and sit under a tree if its not to hot.

Good luck.

 

[Igetit!]

1. sit next to girl in class/say hi to girl in elevator/tap girl on shoulder/say "excuse me" to moving target

Never say "excuse me". "Excuse me" is basically you asking for permission,and asking a girl you're trying to pickup for permission will cause her to emotionally feel slightly above you,and that you don't want. It's better just to haul off and start talking to her assuming she'll go with the flow of the conversation.

2. 3 options
a. ask neutral question eg. did we have hw?
b. make neutral side comment eg. this elevator takes forever, eventually ask for name and introduce each other
c. just say "hi!" with a smile, give my name, ask for her name, where you from, what's it like living there
d. say "i thought you were really cute and just wanted to say hi", ask for name, where you from, etc,

The asking is there was homework question is ok,but don't just say,"Did we have homework?" Talk a bit more. Be like,"Hey,did we have any homework? I hardly got any sleep last night and I was knodding off like every 5 minutes. I don't know if he (the teacher) assigned us anything or not,lol". You'll have to carry most of the convo until she feels comfortable enough to join in.

3. aim to keep conversation going for at least 5 min, practice crazy good listening skills, let her talk 60% of the time, act like my natural self without worrying about saying the right thing

Again,you'll have to start off carrying the bulk of the conversation initially. That letting her talk 60% of the time is sort of a bad idea. Doing that will just cause you to have a bunch of awkward silences since you're the one who started off the conversation.

4. number close by saying "i got to get going, but let me give you call some time. what's your phone number?" smile and hold smile until she answers
5. repeat with 1000 other girls

Both 4 and 5 are ok.

Will this game plan hurt my reputation or image on campus? It is a mid-sized university with several thousand students in my grade, but you do tend to bump into the same people occasionally.

Naw,I think you'll be ok....however,you might want to scrap that plan of trying to approach in an elevator. You need comfort for a pickup to be sucessful,and being in an elevator with people you don't know is uncomfortable enough as it is with the people just standing there.

So to have some guy trying to pick her up in a elevator......no,you don't want to do that.