SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
This hurt to watch. But atleast your aproaching.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Critique my cold approach (video+audio)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well you can either look at all the body-language and all the voice fluctuations and tonality and all the tangents he went off on talking about inane crap, or you can get straight to the point, which is that the OP clearly needs to get more comfortable around women. It seems to me he just needs to spend more time around them generally and not try anything special. He just sort of needs to probe and see what he can and cannot do around the ladies so that he'll be more confident in the future.
I'd say all he needs to do is study up on a few alpha male principles, like those in my signature for example, and just spend some more time around women and see what makes them tick. If he applies a few alpha male principles and hangs back I think they will flock to him. Right now it seems to me he's chasing and that way he is sort of scaring them away. It's clear from what he's said about the follow-up texts that he is chasing.
IMO all the Don Juan principles are wired together with 1 common thread and that's basically this: you want others to put their best foot forward because you are putting your best foot forward.
What most women do, is step back and see if you step foward some more, and then they step back again and the guy steps foward again. Now they're doing cat-string on the guy. I may be digressing but I think this is a solid point I'm making and that's that it all comes down to basics and that the OP should just forget about PUA material imo and get comfortable around chicks and drop all the canned material. Just observe them in their natural habitat and let them do their natural thing.
I'd say all he needs to do is study up on a few alpha male principles, like those in my signature for example, and just spend some more time around women and see what makes them tick. If he applies a few alpha male principles and hangs back I think they will flock to him. Right now it seems to me he's chasing and that way he is sort of scaring them away. It's clear from what he's said about the follow-up texts that he is chasing.
IMO all the Don Juan principles are wired together with 1 common thread and that's basically this: you want others to put their best foot forward because you are putting your best foot forward.
What most women do, is step back and see if you step foward some more, and then they step back again and the guy steps foward again. Now they're doing cat-string on the guy. I may be digressing but I think this is a solid point I'm making and that's that it all comes down to basics and that the OP should just forget about PUA material imo and get comfortable around chicks and drop all the canned material. Just observe them in their natural habitat and let them do their natural thing.